You guys know by now; I am all about blogging mindset tips.
One such tip woke me up.
I saw the outright surprising influence following said tip had on:
- my blogging success
- my life
- my overall happiness
Years ago I struggled to see blogging success. Today I succeed with greater and greater ease.
I know you succeed now. But if you desire increasing success, take this successful blogging tip to heart.
This next level tip makes you experience dizzying blogging success.
Give No Attention and Energy to Negativity and Give 100% Attention and Energy to Positive Ideas, People and Interactions
During a morning walk with my wife today, I noted how some folks email me asking how I am enjoying traveling the world. Traveling is in my blood. Traveling is my soul speaking out loud. I let people know how I deeply enjoy my travels. Anybody with eyes for seeing knows this, and never asks the question. This would be like asking Picasso if he enjoyed painting.
I tend to get a really odd response – that is not so odd really – from a handful of folks; said people respond with an emotional reaction, describing how they dislike travel and how they love their hometown. Who cares? Why would you email someone to tell them how much you love your way of life and how much you dislike another person’s life?
This is a negative, lower energy reaction suggesting an unclear person who wants to live your life but fears making bold moves to live it. Either way, I completely ignore the lower energies and lower energy interactions and voila! I became more and more successful with greater ease. Why? Where your attention and energy goes, grows.
Some people tell me to stop thanking them individually. I ignore their negativity, because if you cannot express gratitude or make a connection based on someone thanking you, you vibe lower on the energetic scale.
I never give attention and energy to someone who is trashing other bloggers because this is a negative weakness manifest, and I don’t do negativity, or weakness.
Friends Change and Some Friendships Evolve into Different Relationships
I deeply love my friends but as I get clearer and see greater success, I give zero attention and energy to negativity from any one of my friends. Success consciousness thing.
I also released many former friends who I vibed with when I was failing, and more negative, and who I no longer vibed with when I became more positive and successful. Friends change. Some friends visit for a while and you need release them.
Other friends remain friends but your bond changes and evolves into something different. Friends attempting to pull me into negative bashing or judging or trashing quickly see I give no energy to such negativity anymore. Sure we are still friends, but the bond evolves from a different dynamic now.
Why Ignoring Negative Situations Makes You Successful
Where your attention and energy goes, grows.
Give your attention only to positive people, positive interactions and success, and your positive ideas, positive friend network and success expands. Easy peasy.
Energetic momentum builds. Move higher in blogging circles. Paying customers arrive. Paying clients pop up in your experience.
Your blanket, conscious choice to give your attention and energy only to positive people, situations and circumstances accelerated your success.
The key is to completely commit to never giving your attention and energy to negative interactions.
The unclear, admiring people who asked you already if you love travel, only to react with the idea that they love their life, or the thanking rejectors, or bashers, never get one split second of your energy, going forward.
Prosper by giving your energy only to positive vibes.