I scanned one of my audio books a few moments ago. Someone posted a 1 star review. After reading it, I felt bad for the individual because he obviously is afraid, in pain and suffering. Nobody publishes a bad review unless the individual is afraid, in pain and suffering, right? My audio book triggered his pain and suffering. I am not the cause of his fear, pain and suffering, nor is my audio book. Me and my listen triggered what already sits within him. Plus, the audio book is inspired, helpful and uplifting, in my heart of hearts. Plus, respected, powerful, influential online entrepreneurs like Alonzo Pichardo – visit his blog and learn more about his services – enjoy my audio books.
So think about it this way; if you give your attention and energy to feeling good about publishing genuine products and services, AND, if you give your attention and energy to people who enjoy your products and services, you will be more and more successful and quite happy, and peaceful, too. But one important step remains; you need to feel however you feel after scanning 1 star reviews, to clearly see a bad review, a critical review or a nasty review, is the thoughts and feelings of an afraid, pained person. Observing negative reviewers as the pinings of a pained, scared human being, you never take a negative review personally because it is all about the reviewer and not about you. Then, starve negative reviewers of attention and energy by shifting immediately to the good premium content you put out, and the folks who enjoy your good content.
Since where your attention and energy goes, grows, you feel better and better, happier, more peace-filled, and since you give all your attention and energy to happy customers and clients, you get more happy customers and clients. Do you see how well this strategy works? Fool proof. The challenge really is sitting with and observing negative, nasty, afraid customers, who view the world through the delusion of their fear and pain. Obviously, they see an illusion, an un-reality, through their fear prism, versus the Truth and Light of Reality and Love. Their problem. Not yours.
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This is the audio book version of the eBook. Pat had a bad day. Maybe a bad life. Maybe his dog died. I have no idea. Because the audio was not “me talking about myself, and the useful information was not lost in all the useless dribble”. Why do I say this?
One of the most respected, powerful blogging tips bloggers on earth, backed and endorsed by Forbes, Fox News, Entrepreneur, Virgin and Market Watch, who circles the globe as a pro blogger, living a movie worthy life, filled each of those practical chapters, filled with practical tips, color and flair.
So who’s telling the truth? Nameless, suffering “pat”? Or the honest, genuine, generous blogger who has offered valued, practical tips for 15,000 hours through his blog, guest posts, eBooks, audio books and courses, said blogger being featured on some of the most famous sites on earth?
I am telling the truth. The eBook helps you. Millions of nameless, faceless “pat’s” will come and go, fading into obscurity. Critics vanish. Fast.
I’m not brilliant or a genius, but I blog with integrity and honesty. Everything I teach you works beautifully. Everything I sell is good money. If you disagree, that’s your problem, your pain and your fear talking. THIS is why I only give attention, energy and love to myself and my loving friends, rabid fans and all folks resonant with my delivery. I starve everybody else. Simple way to accelerate your blogging success.
About the Author
Ryan Biddulph inspires with his blog, courses and 100 plus eBooks at Blogging From Paradise.