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Forget About It! Just Blog.



forgetThis isn’t a list of DON’TS. It’s a list of things to forget about while you’re writing a blog post. Think of this as a guide to help you clear your mind. There are a lot of obstacles that may keep you from sitting down and concentrating on the blog article you’re working on, so de-stress, clear your mind, and get past that writer’s block. Take a look at these 10 things to forget when writing a blog, and you may just be able to get at the root of your problem.

So, forget about…

1. What Time it Is

You need to concentrate on writing, not on the clock. Worrying about how much time has passed since you first sat down to write is a distraction in and of itself. Turn the desk clock towards the wall, and hide the clock on your computer. Live in the moment and let yourself be free of self-imposed time constraints so that you can finish your article.

2. The Rest of the Things On Your To-Do List

I know you have a lot of other things to get done today. But if you keep thinking about them, you’ll never get around to doing them. Break your list down into achievable tasks, starting with the completion of your blog post. Once you’ve compartmentalized all the things on your to-do list, you’ll be able to envision yourself completing each task. Finish the blog post you’re working on, and you’ll have a sense of peaceful completion that will carry you through to your next task. Doesn’t it feel good to make those check marks of completion?

3. What’s Coming on TV Tonight

This is kind of aligned with the notion that you need to forget about what time it is, but anticipating your favorite television program is a more specific time distraction than merely looking at the clock. We all want to know what David Hasselhoff has to say about those kids on America’s Got Talent, but if you sit around thinking about it, you’ll most likely start chatting with your friends or calling up your mom to discuss last week’s episode. It will snowball into a disastrous hour-long debate about Nick Cannon being the new show host, and then where will you be?

Mind you, television isn’t the only way in which you can snowball yourself into a major distraction. That birthday party you’re supposed to be attending can also take up a lot of brain power, especially if you don’t know what you’re going to be wearing. Or the fact that you have to pick up your kids in 3 hours–distraction. Know that you have 3 hours to get your blog article done, and just get it done!

4. What People Are Saying On Twitter

Twitter is among the most accessible blogging platforms out there. You get tweets and DMs on your cell phone. You have two or three browser and desktop applications alerting you to every aspect of your Twitter activity. Your email inbox is full from all the Twitter-related digests you receive regarding new followers. And the real time capacity of Twitter only entices you to respond to all of this Twitter activity as it’s going on. Well, don’t give in to the temptation if you’re trying to work on a blog article. Mute all your Twitter activity for an hour and buckle down!

5. What People Have Already Written About Your Topic

One major reason why a lot of bloggers don’t cover a particular topic is because they see that several other blogs have already written about it. If there’s a topic that is of interest to you, don’t be afraid to cover it. You can still add value to the conversation. And commenting on the other blogger’s articles gives you an opportunity to link back to your own article and become a part of the larger, ongoing discussion.

Whatever the other bloggers have already said, there’s still a chance for you to offer your own insight. Pull from personal experience in order to bring a different perspective to the table. If you’d like, take the time to chat with others about their personal experience in order to gain even more perspective outside of your own. This is also a great way to incorporate interviews into your blog.

And here’s something you should NOT forget: there’s nothing new under the sun. All the things those other bloggers have written have already been thought up and discussed by somebody else.

6. What People Think About You

Just as you need to forget about what others have already written about your topic, you also need to forget about what people think about you. You’ve got your own personality, and this shows through in your writing and your online brand. The beauty of blogging is that you entirely own your content, and you can publish this content freely on the web. Don’t be afraid to express yourself–it’s this personalized expression that draws people to your blog in the first place.

7. Grammar

Grammar, spell check, formatting–these aren’t things you need to worry about while you’re actually typing. All those red and green squiggly lines can be a time-wasting distraction while you’re trying to wrap your head around completing a thought. Just ignore the technical side of things for a while, and focus on your creativeness. It’s really easy to do spell check once you’ve finished your article, and it’s faster this way as well.

8. The Stuff You Don’t Care About

Sometimes you’re just not that into it. If you’re writing about something you don’t really care about, you’re probably not going to do a very good job writing about it. What’s worse is you’ll probably have an even harder time trying to think of something constructive to say. Don’t waste your time. Focus on the topics you’re passionate about. This is a core strength you have as a writer, and it allows your true creativity to shine through.

9. The Other Side of the Argument

You’re writing for a blog. In most cases, you’re writing for your own blog. That means (generally speaking) that you’re supposed to be opinionated. Unlike more subjective journalism or news reporting, you can express your feelings about the topic at hand. Don’t be afraid to say how you feel. The more of yourself you put into your writing, the greater your responses will be. This is how you spur discussions around your given topic, good, bad or otherwise.

10. Your Conclusion

This isn’t always the case, but sometimes creating an outline for your blog article isn’t necessary when you’re trying to get your thoughts down on paper. If you have a topic to write about, but you just can’t think of how to conclude your article, keep writing. See where your thoughts take you and work out a conclusion during this particular writing process. If writing isn’t helping you de-muddle your thoughts, call a friend on the phone and chat about your given topic. Sometimes the act of talking helps us work out our thoughts, effectively leading us to a conclusion.


Hello all. I’m Kristen Nicole. I spend most my time (and I mean most my time) writing for various online publications in the social media space. My latest accomplishment has been co-authoring The Twitter Survival Guide. And please feel free to contact me for a discount code, or if you’re interested in helping us promote the book through our affiliate program!

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eCommerce: 3 Simple Ways to Increase Traffic, Sales and Revenue




For most people blogging is used as a fun and easy way to share their lifestyle or write about their passion. But for some this hobby had become their profession.

Nowadays there are many options to make money with a blog – for example by getting paid for advertising products. Another way is to add your own eCommerce to the blog and sell the products that you are passionate about in your own web store. Creating an online shop can be the first step into your life as a digital nomad or simply being your own boss.

A few years ago, it was necessary to work with a professional developer to integrate an online store to your website. Especially for small manufacturers, this meant a huge investment before they could even start selling their products. Nowadays setting up a web store has become a lot easier and cheaper: Platforms like Shopify can easily be integrated in existing domains and therefore help makers and crafters to start their own eCommerce without professional help. Once you have set up your own Shopify store it is all about increasing the traffic. A bigger reach will eventually lead to a higher number of sales and more revenue.

So, let’s have a look at three simple steps to do so:

1 – Turn your small business into a smart business…

…by adding automation and product management to your website. When launching your business, it might be fine to keep track of the orders in an Excel spreadsheet at first. But since you expect your business to grow it will become one of the most important things to have a management platform in place that allows you to process orders and handle inventory professionally. Therefore, it can be handy to add a production planning and scheduling software as integration to your existing web store. An easy-to-use solution for Shopify-users is the Shopify inventory integration that adds products to your website, manages inventory or tracks shipments.

2 – Make your products sound and look good…

…by adding high-quality images and longer product descriptions to your page. Not only will this make your eCommerce look more professional, but it is also a great way to increase your traffic by reaching a higher rank in the search results. If you are not able to create these yourself, you can outsource writing or graphic design work to freelancers on sites like Fiverr or Upwork.

3 – Don’t stop blogging…

…or get it started if you haven’t done so yet. While it is exciting to start your own business it also takes a lot of time and energy to set everything up. Anyhow, this should not lead to giving up on your blog. Why? Because a growing eCommerce site and an active blog go hand in hand. And remember: The content of your blog should be interesting to your targeted audience and contain at least one thousand words in order to effectively rank in the search results. Here are some examples of the top eCommerce blogs for inspiration.  

…and that is it!

You are now almost ready to start your own eCommerce! In addition to following these three steps, it is always good to keep an eye on your ecommerce competitors. Do not steal their idea but have a look at what is working for them and aim to go beyond that. As long as you focus on your product, the content of your site and a growing search ranking you will successfully manage to increase your traffic, the sales and the revenue of your business.

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Should You Answer that Blogging Question Again?



“Ryan, how do I increase blog traffic?”


“Ryan, how do I make money blogging?”


If I had a dime for every blogger who asked me each question I’d have quite a few dimes. Toss in all the times I observe bloggers asking each question via Quora and various Facebook Groups and you have as many dimes as grains of sand in the Sahara Desert.


I know what you are thinking; should you answer the same question for the 2nd time, 10th time or 100th time? Confusing. One part of you wishes to be generous. Another part of you fears missing an opportunity to help someone who can be a potential client or customer. Another part of you feels annoyed at being asked the question again. Another part of you feels annoyed at embracing and releasing the guilt of ignoring the question.


Should you answer these common blogging questions again and again?




Of course not.


Answering the same, common question more than 1 or 2 times is:


  • foolish
  • an inefficient use of your time
  • ineffective
  • amateur hour stuff


Here’s what I do to:


  • answer questions quickly and easily
  • open myself up to more potential blogging business through possible clients and customers
  • be calm, cool, collected and at peace despite being asked the same question many times


Are you ready?


Write a blog post!


Or write and self-publish an eBook.




If someone asks me how to drive more traffic to my blog I send them this link:


4 Blog Traffic Driving Fundamentals


Or I send ’em a link from any one of my myriad blog traffic driving posts on Blogging From Paradise.


If someone asks about specific income streams for making money through their blogs I send them a link to my eBook:


15 Ways to Make Money Blogging


Or if someone asks how to make money through guest posting I send them this link from my guest post on the blog of the awesome Enstine Muki:


How to Write a Guest Post that Grows Your Business


What an easy, simple, efficient, effective way to:


  • answer a common question many times
  • answer a common question in 1-2 seconds
  • drive traffic to my blog
  • increase my blogging profits
  • help people, and be helped by people through their prospering of me
  • avoid anger
  • avoid annoyance
  • avoid judging people who have no idea how to blog


Fools complain about new bloggers asking the same, old questions. Why does a new blogger ask a question? They have no idea how to blog! Duh. Why anger at their ignorance? Why get annoyed that you need to answer the question again? Write a blog post answering the question. Send the blog post to anybody who asks the question. Seize opportunities to help people and to drive traffic and profits to your blog.


Email Mistake


Do you own Gmail? I do not. Since I do not own Gmail it’d be foolish for me to answer questions via Gmail when I can be answering the same question on my self-hosted blog. I own Blogging From Paradise. I own that online real estate. Answer questions on your owned cyber real estate. Brand you. Grow your business. Increase your traffic. Keep the ball in your court. Have posture.




If I spend 10 minutes answering a question for 1 human I am a fool when I could spend 45 minutes answering the question for 100, or 10,000 or 1,000,000 humans, by writing a helpful blog post answering the question and sending the blog post link to all future folks who ask the question. Plus; when the post goes live, I answer common questions passively, said common questions no doubt in the minds of thousands of bloggers out there.


Leverage. Write a blog post. Do not help one person. Help 10,000 people. Save your time and energy. Make more money.

Matthew Loomis at Build Your Own Blog is a smart guy. Peep his home page. He lays out clear, concise steps for building your blog via his sidebar. You just know how many people asked him the common, pressing, basic blogging questions that he skillfully answered through those clear steps.


He leveraged his knowledge. He answered common questions BEFORE people asked him common blogging questions. Smart! Help a ton of folks quickly and easily. Drive blog traffic. Increase blogging profits. Lower your bounce rate. Improve the amount of time people spend on your blog.


Write a blog post. Send the blog post link to anybody who asks the common blogging question.


Think abundantly.

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Why Cold Pitching and Bartering Do Not Work in Blogging



2 words: nobody cares.

I just checked my email. One stranger who came in cold – as strangers always do – emailed me a reply:

“Is that your lowest price?”

I deleted his email. On a day when feeling less compassionate, I junk the email. Label it as spam. Why?

Nobody cares.

I genuinely care about someone who genuinely cares about me. I do not care much about a stranger who tries to barter with me when he ignored the email where I told him my final, fixed, non-negotiable price. Thousands of strangers have tried this approach. Thousands of strangers get ignored.

Nobody cares.

That was one of the bartering emails.

I received a handful of cold pitch emails. Bloggers emailed me as strangers, asking to guest post on my site. 90% did not even bother to address me by name.

2 words: nobody cares. Meaning, I do not care about them. I delete. I ignore. I move on.

I checked my spam folder to delete the emails. I scanned. 3 more pitch emails popped up in spam. The bloggers pitching through these emails pissed off enough bloggers to ensure; all future emails of theirs land in spam. Try building a blogging business from the spam folder. I dare you.

Genuinely, nobody cares.


Imagine someone knocking on the door of your home right now. Go ahead. Visualize this scenario.

This person wants to sell you a vacuum cleaner. You shut the door in their face unless you are 1 of 1,000,000 people who would actually buy a vacuum from a stranger at your door. The remaining 999,999 human beings either buy one on Amazon or via their local department store.

Save the 1 person, nobody cares about a stranger who blindly pitches their sales services or who blindly pitches an opportunity at the door of their home. Just like nobody cares about a stranger who blindly pitches them a guest posting opportunity.

Nobody cares.

How to Get People to Care

If you want people to care enough to buy your blogging course or to feature you on their blogs, care about them.

If you want to land on Blogging From Paradise just do these things:

  • spend 3-6 months promoting me on your blog
  • spend 3-6 months promoting me on social media
  • publish 2-3 posts weekly
  • practice writing daily; offline

I begin to care about people who care about me generously and genuinely.

You stand out from the thousands of strangers who I do not care about when you care about me. It is such an easy tactic to build bonds with leading bloggers. Simple, too. Care about me as a human being. Ask for nothing. Expect nothing. Pay your blogging dues. Be generous. Be genuine. Be patient. Be persistent. Guaranteed; you will stand out from the crowd eventually. You have to, because generosity is always repaid in some way, shape or form down the road.

My generous, skilled friends get links on Blogging From Paradise for free.

Strangers need to pay my rate. If a stranger tries to barter my rate after I noted my fixed, non-negotiable, price, I delete the email. I may spam the email. People who do not have enough respect for me to read the entire email belong in spam. Landing in spam is the blogging business kiss of death; you will fail blogging for 1,000 years if your emails wind up in spam. The Blogging Scarlet Letter is S, for Spam.

Just freaking care about bloggers. How hard is that? Stop focusing on yourself and your needs and what you want to GET out of me and do some GIVING. Fool proof, simple, powerful way to build a successful blog. Plus you will have the money to invest in sponsored posts so you need not try to barter like a cheapie. Plus you will receive more and more free links on top blogs.

Doesn’t that sound fun?

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