Who’d have thunk I’d have a snack with Zac?
Last week, Blogging Tips owner, internet icon and fellow New Jersey guy Zac Johnson was kind enough to sit down with me for lunch. We enjoyed delicious meals at an authentic Vietnamese restaurant in good old NJ.
I guess you could say I took a tiny page out of John Chow’s book; he seems to favor Vietnamese fare for his Dot Com Lunch series of blog posts.
Anyway. Here’s the proof. That I met Zac. Or am really good with Photoshop.
Learning from Legends
For those not in the know, Zac has been online since 1996. Not just casual cruising stuff either. He has been making money online and blogging up a storm for what is the online equivalent of eons. When guys like this talk, I listen. A ‘la EF Hutton.
Legends clue you in to how you should traverse the sometimes slippery cyber slope.
So….the next time you think you know better, be open to legendary advice. These guys have a firm grasp on what it takes to rock it out online.
1: Mindset Mindset Mindset
The topic of online newbies came up.
Zac noted how a number of new online entrepreneurs quit on their ventures after not making “John Chow Money” 1 or 2 weeks into their online careers. He mentioned how having the right mindset benefits bloggers immensely. For when you are a persistent, patient bugger, willing to learn your trade, you simply won’t quit.
I am the eternal optimist. Anything is possible. Really. But I also know a time buffer exists between beginning an online venture and succeeding with it. Misled or greedy online newbies become delusional about this time buffer, expecting to rake in a full time income in days or weeks.
Blog from the inside-out. Meaning, if you’re struggling to make a dime online – literally – consider stepping back from your blog to assess how you really think and feel about your online exploits. Enjoy your journey. Learn. Study. Observe the icons. How do they go about their businesses? Be open. Be sponge-like to success.
OK, I will now enter you into a time machine. HG Wells style.
I will also officially date myself with the following reference.
I am a huge fan of the movie, “The Thing.” Yes it’s from the early ’80’s.
Long story short, an alien creature lands in Antarctica. Said creature mimics any life form it makes contact with. Dogs, people, any sentient being. As said slimy creature perfectly imitates other life forms it infects/kills/mutilates other life forms, evolving, producing the perfect species to rule the earth, if you will.
Until a heroic – and heavily bearded – Kurt Russell saves the day, this Thing was well on its way to dominating the world, cloning, killing and consuming, being amenable to change.
I do not advise you to eat your competition. Please don’t clone them. And mutilating is not allowed! But if you can extract the evolution lesson from “The Thing” you will understand why Zac is so well known.
He noted how one must evolve as times change to succeed online. Zac did. Not the Thing.
Back when he was a greenie, Myspace was the shiznet. Then Myspace went to shiznet. Aol. Blogger. Online journal. List the fads, if you’re an old hat like me, or if you’re more of a Young Turk just think of the deluge of known sites that fall off the edge of the planet in a year. Let alone over 4 years.
Evolve. Change is the 1 constant online. Be willing to change. Be willing to evolve.
I deleted 3400 blog posts, a blog and my online brand in 2014 to evolve. I’d outgrown the old brand. I felt a nudge to build a new brand. Blogging from Paradise was born. I’ve never looked back.
Go with the flow. Release old, worn out blogs. Pick a blogging niche you could talk about all day. Then blog about it.
3: Meet People in Person
Zac is one of a handful of bloggers I’ve met in person.
I connected with a few blogging buddies in India. I met with a bud in Bali. I also chilled with blogging buddies in Kathmandu, Nepal.
Hands down, the easiest way to form a strong, powerful, genuine bond with another human being is to take them out for lunch. I prefer to pick up the bill. Feel free to go Dutch on this one. Your call.
Zac also mentioned how he hangs out with guys like John Chow while attending live events. Chilling with someone in person forms a stronger bond between friends. Seeing someone live and in the flesh reminds you that yes, they are actual living, breathing human beings. Not avatars. Not words on a screen. Not online personalities. Forming these types of powerful bonds will move your blogging career into orbit.
Attend live events. If you’re in a fellow blogger’s neighborhood, look them up. Ask them out to lunch. In most cases you will develop a much stronger friendship with bloggers you connect with in person. Makes ’em more human to you.
Note; when traveling through Chennai, India, I once got a call from the hotel lobby that someone showed up to see me. Seriously. The Stalker-razzi will go to ridiculous lengths to get a selfie with old RB, I guess.
What blogging lessons have you learned recently?
What have you learned from Zac?
How Much Traffic Do You Need to Make Money Blogging?
But I do know this; if you ask this question you think like employees. Bad mindset for a blogger. Employees think putting in set amounts of work or reaching some specific goal results in receiving income. 100% of the time, this is NOT true as a professional or amateur blogger. Nobody has any idea how your traffic behaves. Is it targeted, or general? How did you attract your readers? Drilling deeper, it is impossible to surmise that a specific amount of traffic leads to some set amount of income.
Traffic and blogging income are only related in that, if you drive titanic amounts of targeted traffic to your blog, you will make some coin. But other than driving monstrous amounts of traffic – and any blogger asking this question is 10,000 to 20,000 hours away from this type of traffic – you need to understand that making money blogging is about generously helping people, building bonds, creating value, trusting in the process and developing your money mindset diligently, vibing abundance.
Do you want to make money blogging? Stop looking at traffic stats. Nobody pays you like an employer if you register 100 visitors daily to your blog. Stop thinking like an employee. Begin thinking like an entrepreneur. Help people generously. Make friends. Trust in the blogging process. Trust yourself. Think abundantly. Keep helping people. Develop your money mindset. Open multiple streams of income. Money will flow your way if you focus less on traffic stats and things, and more on generously helping human beings. Help people generously, patiently and persistently. Make money. This is the secret to successful blogging. But most bloggers fall lost in a world of stats and employee-level thinking, falsely believing generating a specific number of daily blog visitors results in some blogging employer paying them a set salary, a paycheck, for a goal achieved.
Do not fall prey to this common blogging mindset error in error. Money flows to you based on your generous service and based on your trust in the blogging process. Money can and will arrive but only after you relax, detach, help folks and give little or no thought to money, traffic and other blogging outcomes. The less you think about making money through your blog, the more you help people. The more you help people, the more money you eventually make. Successful blogging and making money is simply about helping tons of people for free to increase your blogging skills and exposure. Open multiple streams of income through which to prosper. Eventually, money flows to you.
Do not get distracted by ideas consistent with the blog post title question. Do not get caught up in blogging money and traffic outcomes. Stop looking for your blogging pay day and get busy helping people freely to learn the secret of effective blog monetizing. Money finds generous servants and money sprints away from bloggers routinely obsessed with making money. Sure you want to promote yourself at every turn. Goodness knows, I am always promoting my 100 plus eBooks and 2 blogging courses in all I do. Plus I promote my audio books and paperbacks, too. But my intent is mostly about helping as many bloggers as possible through guest posting, posting to my blog and via podcasting and broadcasting live. Prospering grows easier the more I help folks freely.
How to Develop Super Human Confidence in Your Blog
Baby steps, my Young Blogging Padawans.
New bloggers, baby step your way to being super human confident in your blog. Being wracked by doubt, with a little wild excitement mixed in, you cannot gain unreal confidence in your blog today. But slowly and steadily gaining clarity gives you the foundation upon which to become a highly successful blogger who feels bold, knowing your blog rocks.
I am about super human confident in my blog. I am developing the same level of confidence in my eBooks and courses, too. Why? Believing in my blog and premium offerings helps me to help more people and I also make more money too, which is neat, considering I live a worldly life.
Follow these tips.
1: Feel and Release Fears-Doubts Aligned with Your Blog
Before you become confident, you need to purge any lack of confidence. I know this feels bad but tis a necessary step to become super duper confident in your blog and in your premium offerings, too. Sit with doubts, those nasty traitors. Be with your fears about self, your writing ability and your blog presentation. Feel these unpleasant energies. Clear the energies. Proceed from a clearer, more confident, space. Confidence is borne of clearing a lack of confidence. Do messy energy work to become uber confident in your blog and in your blogging abilities.
2: Surround Yourself with Loving Bloggers
Loving, caring, compassionate bloggers see brilliance in you when you cannot seem to see it in yourself. Although all confidence issues flow inside-out, you need a network of supportive people around you who believe in you, versus being around haters or negative nellies. Never, ever, ever surround yourself with poverty conscious, failure conscious bloggers. Are you running a cyber charity? Are you a therapist? No! Negative people stuck in fear and failure throw negative cross currents into your being, shaking your already fragile confidence in your blog.
Hang with folks who believe in you and who believe in your blog. Pros share where and how you can improve but they always believe in someone who follows their dreams, and will instill that faith in you, and in your blog, too.
3: Write Your Butt Off and Publish Content Like the Dickens
Writing and publishing content is like breathing to me. I do not lose confidence in my ability to breathe because this is an automatic, auto-pilot, process. I just breathe without thinking about it. Ditto for writing and blogging. I wrote and blogged for 20,000 to 30,000 hours so now it is an automatic, easy process I have super human confidence in. I do not even think about it because I do it routinely, automatically, on a type of auto-pilot borne of making writing and blogging a habit.
If someone criticizes my blog, it is like someone criticizing my breathing; sounds weird, or funny, but it stirs me not, because I have equal confidence in each.
4: Do Energy Work
I do not play around; 3-4 hours of energy work daily allowed me to face, feel and release blog doubts, to become the clear, confident blogger I am today. Consider meditating, or doing yin yoga, or doing Kriya yoga, and power walking. Or do it all. I spend 3-4 hours doing each – collectively – daily, to expand my awareness so I can feel and clear doubts and so I can blog mainly from an abundant, generous, relaxed, detached vibe.
Be confident guys. Believe in your blog. Follow these 4 tips to succeed and to become super human confident in your blog.
Should You Search for New Blogging Niche Ideas?
Ask yourself that question and you will get an answer that best suits you.
I went with the blogging tips niche for people who want to circle the globe. But I did not go for this niche to be new, edgy or different. I had lived that life for many years. This made sense for me. I was being genuine, honest and as authentic as one can be. Perfect match. But if I chose a new niche from an energy solely of financial gain, being popular or some other fear-based driver, I would have fallen flat on my blogging face.
Why would you ask someone for new niche ideas? What is the energy or intent there? Do you want the fast track to success? Or are you in a creative space, wishing to do something different? I see searching for new blogging niches as being a waste of time considering the endless, established niches we already have at our disposal. Why waste time and energy searching for some niche if you have all the niches you need right before your cyber eyes? Toss in the fact that you need to research the niche inside-out if you have no prior knowledge and you invest a significant amount of time just to get the blog off of the ground. Makes no sense to me.
What do you love talking about? What is your biggest passion? Start there. Select that niche. You already have an ample supply of information in your noggin and the confidence to discuss the niche in clear, cogent fashion. Who cares if the niche is new or old? The blogging tips niche – my main niche – has been around for a few decades. Who cares? There is nothing new under the sun blogging-wise but thousands of new bloggers join our ranks daily. I also find that I seem to be converting people to blogging the more I persist in creating and connecting, keeping at this gig, being present, helping spread awareness about a pretty cool blogging niche, and, about a pretty cool way to help people and to free yourself.
Go with What You Know
When it comes to picking a blogging niche, go with what you know. Pick a niche inside of your blogging and knowledge wheelhouse because being armed with knowledge, experience, and a pulsating passion for discussing the niche makes you stand out from the blogging crowd in a major league way. I created this blogging course in under a day. Imagine that? 6 hours of recordings and oodles of blogging knowledge, packaged into a course that I created in under 24 hours. Imagine how much I needed to know about blogging and how confident and clear I had to be in myself, to ship in 24 hours? I go with what I know; sure doesn’t hurt me.
But when you pick a new blogging niche you have no knowledge of, it takes you 2 months to create and ship the course. Not good. There is the quick, and the dead, in the blogging world. We need be patient, persistent and generous to succeed online but in the same regard, adding years to your learning curve by deviating from what you know is a foolish blogging idea. Why? Go with what you know to prosper mightily over the long haul and to hit the ground running.
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