Who’d have thunk I’d have a snack with Zac?
Last week, Blogging Tips owner, internet icon and fellow New Jersey guy Zac Johnson was kind enough to sit down with me for lunch. We enjoyed delicious meals at an authentic Vietnamese restaurant in good old NJ.
I guess you could say I took a tiny page out of John Chow’s book; he seems to favor Vietnamese fare for his Dot Com Lunch series of blog posts.
Anyway. Here’s the proof. That I met Zac. Or am really good with Photoshop.
Learning from Legends
For those not in the know, Zac has been online since 1996. Not just casual cruising stuff either. He has been making money online and blogging up a storm for what is the online equivalent of eons. When guys like this talk, I listen. A ‘la EF Hutton.
Legends clue you in to how you should traverse the sometimes slippery cyber slope.
So….the next time you think you know better, be open to legendary advice. These guys have a firm grasp on what it takes to rock it out online.
1: Mindset Mindset Mindset
The topic of online newbies came up.
Zac noted how a number of new online entrepreneurs quit on their ventures after not making “John Chow Money” 1 or 2 weeks into their online careers. He mentioned how having the right mindset benefits bloggers immensely. For when you are a persistent, patient bugger, willing to learn your trade, you simply won’t quit.
I am the eternal optimist. Anything is possible. Really. But I also know a time buffer exists between beginning an online venture and succeeding with it. Misled or greedy online newbies become delusional about this time buffer, expecting to rake in a full time income in days or weeks.
Blog from the inside-out. Meaning, if you’re struggling to make a dime online – literally – consider stepping back from your blog to assess how you really think and feel about your online exploits. Enjoy your journey. Learn. Study. Observe the icons. How do they go about their businesses? Be open. Be sponge-like to success.
OK, I will now enter you into a time machine. HG Wells style.
I will also officially date myself with the following reference.
I am a huge fan of the movie, “The Thing.” Yes it’s from the early ’80’s.
Long story short, an alien creature lands in Antarctica. Said creature mimics any life form it makes contact with. Dogs, people, any sentient being. As said slimy creature perfectly imitates other life forms it infects/kills/mutilates other life forms, evolving, producing the perfect species to rule the earth, if you will.
Until a heroic – and heavily bearded – Kurt Russell saves the day, this Thing was well on its way to dominating the world, cloning, killing and consuming, being amenable to change.
I do not advise you to eat your competition. Please don’t clone them. And mutilating is not allowed! But if you can extract the evolution lesson from “The Thing” you will understand why Zac is so well known.
He noted how one must evolve as times change to succeed online. Zac did. Not the Thing.
Back when he was a greenie, Myspace was the shiznet. Then Myspace went to shiznet. Aol. Blogger. Online journal. List the fads, if you’re an old hat like me, or if you’re more of a Young Turk just think of the deluge of known sites that fall off the edge of the planet in a year. Let alone over 4 years.
Evolve. Change is the 1 constant online. Be willing to change. Be willing to evolve.
I deleted 3400 blog posts, a blog and my online brand in 2014 to evolve. I’d outgrown the old brand. I felt a nudge to build a new brand. Blogging from Paradise was born. I’ve never looked back.
Go with the flow. Release old, worn out blogs. Pick a blogging niche you could talk about all day. Then blog about it.
3: Meet People in Person
Zac is one of a handful of bloggers I’ve met in person.
I connected with a few blogging buddies in India. I met with a bud in Bali. I also chilled with blogging buddies in Kathmandu, Nepal.
Hands down, the easiest way to form a strong, powerful, genuine bond with another human being is to take them out for lunch. I prefer to pick up the bill. Feel free to go Dutch on this one. Your call.
Zac also mentioned how he hangs out with guys like John Chow while attending live events. Chilling with someone in person forms a stronger bond between friends. Seeing someone live and in the flesh reminds you that yes, they are actual living, breathing human beings. Not avatars. Not words on a screen. Not online personalities. Forming these types of powerful bonds will move your blogging career into orbit.
Attend live events. If you’re in a fellow blogger’s neighborhood, look them up. Ask them out to lunch. In most cases you will develop a much stronger friendship with bloggers you connect with in person. Makes ’em more human to you.
Note; when traveling through Chennai, India, I once got a call from the hotel lobby that someone showed up to see me. Seriously. The Stalker-razzi will go to ridiculous lengths to get a selfie with old RB, I guess.
What blogging lessons have you learned recently?
What have you learned from Zac?
How Most People Think Blogging Is and How it REALLY Is
I love my gig. Right now, I blog from beautiful NYC. Quick 9 day trip to Manhattan. Can you imagine how fun and freeing this life is? Circling the globe, seeing places like Fiji, Bali and Thailand, experiencing these spots for years at a time? Amazing journey indeed. I feel appreciative of this fun, freeing life. I also know how most people think my life goes; write a few words, tap a publish button, make money, soar off to Fiji for 4 months. Most human beings cling to a terribly flawed aspect of their personality; ego. Ego sees free people and assumes, to preserve itself, how freedom must be an easy, comfortable journey for other people to take, because ego KNOWS freedom has not been an easy, comfortable objective, for ego.
Most human beings vibe from a dominant energy of fear so most human beings see illusions, appearances, NOT reality, a magic trick, something not REALLY happening. Most humans see me living in Thailand for months and see the illusion of me spending 2 hours to publish a post, seeing me making money, then, flying to Thailand. What fear-filled folks cannot see is the truth of this: me blogging for 5,000 hours – or more – through ups and downs, highs and lows, love and fear, peace and terror, and an even wider range of emotions….to live a life of blogging in Thailand for months at a time. The truth, the reality, of how blogging really is: blog for thousands of hours, make little or no money, then, after blogging for thousands of hours from a generous, calm, trusting, abundant vibe, feeling deep fears here and there along the way, the money flows in freely and you get to circle the globe whenever you want to circle the globe.
Take a look at this picture of me in Lyttelton, New Zealand:
Most people see an illusion: “Ryan is SO lucky! He gets to spend 2 months in New Zealand! I wish I had his life!”
The few human beings on earth who see the truth see this: “That guy lives an amazing life, being in New Zealand for 2 months, because he blogged for 10,000 hours, often times, when things did not appear to be coming together, outlook, appearing bleak.”
Truth seers are rare birds, folks. Why do you think I spend 3 or more hours daily meditating, doing yoga and exercising? I stabilize my vibe, uncover and purge illusory-producing fears and see the truth, more often than not. You need to see the truth to taste freeing, sweet blogging success. Can you taste my life? Imagine how it’d feel to live in NYC for a week? Imagine how it’d feel to live in Bali for 6 months? Fun, eh? Freeing, right? Of course you’d feel free, circling the globe, changing time zones like people change their minds. But to live this fun, freeing life, you have to live the truth of blogging for hundreds to thousands of generous, trusting hours, before you live the life, and, before you experience this level of fun and freedom. Most humans mean well but totally get caught up in the illusion, not seeing the truth because they fill their minds with fears, creating the insanity of luck and the delusion of envy, and the crazy, mentally ill, concept that you can live an amazingly fun, freeing life with a few hours, a few weeks or a few months of lazy blogging effort.
Do you want to step up to the blogging big time? Step away from most people. See the truth. This blogging gig takes serious effort and serious time. Most people live in delusion, in an illusion of fear. You know better. You know how blogging REALLY is. Sure blogging feels scary in moments but the ride feels largely fun and freeing when you follow your fun, generously help people and trust in yourself, and, trust in the blogging process. I know you’re up it!
I have this funny skill where I write entire eBooks based on silly analogies. Do you crave increased blogging success? I can help you with these colorful fruit bat analogies. Buy my eBook here:
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Face Newbie Blogger Fears Early to Accelerate Your Success
Do you genuinely want to hit the ground running with your blog? Face newbie blogger fears early. Do not mess around. Do not play around. Never be anchored down by doubt. Face fears, feel fears and you will feel so good, and free, and ready to succeed through your new blog because fear cannot hold you back if you face it, feel it, release it and proceed.
Life as a solopreneur feels fun, freeing and highly challenging because you do not possess the resources of more established entrepreneurs or people working for a company. The #1 tool in your new blogger arsenal is a willingness to face, feel and release deep fears related to being a newbie. Do this; be golden. Fun, freedom and expansive success awaits you because your generosity, creativity and willingness to connect just accelerates your blogging success…yes…even as a new blogger. How cool, right? No new blogger needs to struggle, fail and quit before giving themselves a chance, because fear is the only thing standing between you and what you need to do, to succeed. For example, I routinely tell new bloggers to buy courses or eBooks for due diligence material. More importantly, I tell them NOT to rely solely on questions and answers through Quora for their due diligence campaign because free platforms pale in comparison to trusted, premium resources from the top bloggers, in terms of research materials.
What can you do to accelerate your new blogger success fast? Nudge into the fear of spending money on training resources, feel the fear, release the fear and buy the course and/or eBook. Doing this, you begin taking the course and/or reading the eBook, putting your new knowledge into action, succeeding more quickly. Meanwhile, most new bloggers who refuse to face their fears keep asking questions on Quora, relying on strangers, possibly skilled but usually unskilled bloggers to supply them with non-vetted answers for critical blogging research. How in the heck can you rely on this most crucial of information if you have no idea who offers the answers? Can you see why this method is totally unreliable, for getting your blogging research? A few skilled bloggers offer some keen insight but step out of the fear-vibe into the abundant, successful vibe by investing money in a top blogging education.
If you can either pay for a Harvard education or ask some stranger on the street for their free advice, what seems to be the more intelligent decision? Invest money in expert advice? Or save money to get advice from some stranger on the street who may or may not know what they are talking about? Can you see why so many new bloggers struggle, fearing to invest money in the best blogging advice, choosing to get free, unreliable blogging advice from the general blogging public?
Pay up to play up. Invest money in your blogging education to move higher in blogging circles. Be a fear-diver; keep nudging into fears to better understand how to succeed, feeling and releasing these confining, restricting forms of bondage. Face newbie blogger fears early and often to remove the shackles that hold you down. Doesn’t it feel better to dive into fears routinely so you can accelerate your blogging success, even as a newbie?
How to Promote Yourself without Bragging and Repelling Readers
You do know promoting yourself freely constitutes one pillar of blogging success, right guys? Bloggers need to be clear, confident and relaxed enough with self to appeal to us. Who wants to follow someone with low self-esteem? We seek out bright lights, not bloggers slumming around in the blogging sewer, eh? But self-promoting is a fine art for the discerning blogger to master; go too far, bragging your butt off, and your arrogance repels readers. People despise someone who speaks about self all day long because these over-compensating buffoons, deep-down, fear they are not enough. Bad trait in a leader. I figured it’d be easiest to self promote by simply…..self promoting like the dickens.
Example; buy our new course. Yep, Sue-Ann and I plan to make you happy as a blogging pig in slop with our new course. Do you see how I got right to the point? No beating around the bush. I promoted me, and, Sue-Ann, clearly explaining why you need to buy our blogging course….by saying….buy it, and you will be a happy blogger. Promoting yourself through virtually all content you create is the easiest, simplest way to find the happy medium between being a shy guy or shy gal and being an arrogant, boastful, bragging clown. The real secret is to keep promoting self through all the self-conscious, anxious, money-related, appearance-related fears most of us cling to, before we become clear, confident self-promoters.
Put Attention on Your Readers
Do you feel disgusted with wasting time online? Do you want to drink up sweet blogging freedom, using your time online effectively, powerfully and efficiently? Buy my eBook:
Let us rewind for a moment, shall we? Time to review how I promoted myself by putting attention on you, you rocking readers of Blogging Tips Dot Com. I promoted self because I promoted my eBook. I make money every time you buy the eBook. Cool. Feels good to me. But did you notice I asked if YOU felt disgusted, and if YOU wanted to drink up sweet blogging freedom, before I promoted ME? This is one secret to promoting your products and services without looking like a dingbat. I helped you by putting the attention on you, making my self-promotion about you and me. We both win. You access a freeing, fun, valued resources and I access an energy we call “money”. Fair exchange, methinks. I never come off as bragging, being boastful or outright being a cocky jerk because I make it about US. See how thinking about everybody, and bringing folks together, benefits everyone? Cultivate your sense of compassion guys; developing this skill helps you go far in blogging, and, in life.
Be Subtle in Sharing Your Accomplishments
Feel free to share your accomplishments if you feel doing so boosts your credibility. But never be a flat out braggart by speaking about yourself in boastful, self-centered, self-serving tones. Why? Doing so turns off folks because braggarts secretly do NOT believe in themselves, and need that facade of boastfulness to even dream of trying to succeed online. Every braggart is broken. Point blank. Even if you achieved immense worldly success and appear to be happy, the appearance is an illusion, as you do not believe in yourself, and people who do not believe in themselves cannot succeed in leading others. Be subtle in sharing your wins. Be delicate in sharing your feats. Humble yourself. Allow other folks to do the bragging so you promote yourself from a relaxed, chill, attractive energy.
Tap those Twitter and Facebook buttons to spread the word on this important topic of self-promoting. Let’s empower bloggers to taste sweet success by teaching them how to promote themselves the right way, shall we?
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