Connect with us

Blogging

Balancing Blogging With Work / Studies

Published

on

Making of a successful-and-outstanding Blog does not always require you to be a full time blogger. Though blogging is a career, many people who do blog are people who work, study or are just at home doing nothing. This list is infinite.

Unless you work for Google your not lucky since they allow you 10% of your time to do whatever you want.

At a point of time I did not have proper guidance to manage both and had to go away from blogging for a while to pursue some personal interests, not that I did not have time to blog but the fact that I did not plan to manage both work and blog was what led to that. I am back blogging and I intend to be useful to many people by writing things. I am back truly and passionately to blog.

I wanted to share things as to how I could blog and work at the same time. Before I get into it I would like to reason why I chose to work and blog and would like to balance both of these together.

1. I love my job

I am software engineer by profession and I love the challenges my job presents me.

2. I love writing

I love to write and that’s why I love to blog, no better reason than this.

These are just my opinions why I like my job and why I like blogging, if you have a reason to work and a reason to blog then this is just for you.

Rules

The dreaded word that some people hate and many people follow is the basic ingredient of you being able to work and blog.

Never Work and Blog Together

The emphasis is intentional. It is a rule that you don’t blog while you work and vice versa. It is a cardinal sin to use your work time for blogging. You can get sacked if you are caught so it is more than just that. Avoiding your workplace for blogging not only saves you from this it also gives you the freedom to write more freely.

Imagine yourself writing a post and you got a great idea what to write next, at the next moment someone pops up at your desk and sticks around for about half an hour to talk about a company issue, well you forget your idea, it happens believe me.

In another scenario imagine yourself writing a post and your boss walks in and spots you, you are in big trouble right away, especially if your company policy is strict and disallows you from personal web use.

Workaround

Don’t fret that you are tied down to your work and cant blog. That’s why you are working and blogging right. You can still do all the blogging and gather all the information you want while you are at work.

1. Collect all information you can

While you may be able to access various sites at your work and read feeds collect all the information you can. It may relate to a particular topic or particular product, just pile up the information however vague it may seem.

2. Note it all down

A notepad is always available with you at any place you work, use that to note down your ideas it works great. However good a computer may be I always use my notepad because I can always tear it off and carry it wherever and I don’t need to stare at the damn computer screen while I think.

If you prefer to use the computer, the printer is always great unless your company allows personal printouts.

3. Interact with your colleagues / friends / mates

The best way to get ideas is from other people. The human mind always thinks when it has to, having a quick chat with your colleagues about things you blog about gives you an idea of what they think about it. Other people’s opinion holds a lot of importance as it is other people who read your blog.

I picked up writing about technology as I was working in that domain. Many people call me to solve their problems and most of the times I use that as an idea to write a post.

4. Note the unsolvable things you solve at work

While writing original posts I have always written about problems that I have not been able to solve using the web. Since I myself could not find a proper solution I tend to blog about it and let the world find a proper solution for a problem. Not only is it is original it helps a lot of people who are trying to find solutions for similar problems.

Writing such articles increase the value of the blog since many other sites will attribute it towards you and direct more people towards your blog.

Dedicate time for blogging

The reason I did not say dedicate time for working is because you already have to put in a specific amount of time at work.

If you like to blog it is very essential you put up some time for it, a typical work day includes 8 hours of work and around 90 minutes of commuting. Now include 8 hours of sleep and 1 hour for dinner. It all adds up to 18 hours and 30 minutes leaving you with 5 hours and 30 minutes for your personal things. (all of above times are part of my typical day).

Now spare 1 hour or 90 minutes for blogging and you can get over with 2 posts or at least 1. Use the ideas you collected to write a post.

Summarizing

There is no hard and fast rule to balance working / studying with blogging, you create your own rules for them. These tips are intended to help you if you are struggling to balance things from both worlds.

Everyone does not need to be a problogger to be successful or does not have to aim to become one. Anyone who has a blog can be successful no matter what you do beyond your blogging life.

That said I would still like to hear more from you about managing the best of both worlds. A single opinion is incomplete and you comments will add to the value for all the other readers who are struggling to manage their time in managing blogging with working or studying.

  •  
  •  
  •  
  •  

A technology blogger who fell in love with WordPress the day I started using it

Continue Reading

Blogging

Blogging Is Not What You Are Doing But What You Are Being

Published

on

Phew!

Think this one through.

Blogging is what you are being. Not doing.

Blogging is not mindlessly doing stuff. Oh shoot. You realized something, didn’t you? Blogging is not building an email list. Email lists do not give you success. Nope. Clear, confident, detached bloggers who have fun building email lists and who trust in the blogging process grow big, responsive, profitable lists….over time. What does this mean?

“Over time” means you do not panic, flip out or bail on blogging, if you calmly build a list and have fun doing it, for a long time, and see the appearances of little or no growth. This is BEING a successful blogger; having fun, trusting, being patient, taking the simple, easy route, even if it feels uncomfortable after blogging and list building for a bit and seeing the illusion of scant results.

Most Bloggers Fail Because They Screw It Up

Most bloggers buy into a lie; doing specific things makes you successful. Nope. If this were the case, everybody who builds a list would be billionaires. Because they built a list, lists breed success, right? Nope. Even if you follow steps robotic-like, your energy, your emotions, your feelings, all make up your BEING. The 6 and 7 and 8 figure earners who happily take this journey are being the 6, 7 and 8 figure earners energetically, calm and confident, after having fun creating content and connecting, and seeing $4 in blogging profits after 6 months of being the person. Every other blogger panics after 1 day, 1 week or 1 month, stop being the millionaire success, do dumb stuff, begin being a broke person, and see struggle and failure until they decide to be the successful blogger again.

The Core Elements of Being a Success

Blog mainly:

  • for fun
  • taking the easy but uncomfortable path; do what feels natural to you, even when you slam into fear of wasting your time, fear of being criticized, fear of mental blocks, etc
  • with a complete trust in yourself
  • with a complete trust in the blogging process
  • with a complete trust in sound, proven advice from successful bloggers

Very few bloggers be these energies persistently. Very few bloggers happily earn a pretty penny over time. Few bloggers be success. Most bloggers try to do their way to success but since they act without giving any thought to their intent, their driver, their energy, almost all of these bloggers are being broke, poor, struggling and failing.

Blogging is not robotic. If blogging was robotic, every blogger who did specific things in a certain way would succeed. But this is not true. Blogging is energy. Top bloggers use all types of different approaches to reach the top. This indicates blogging is primarily energy, your energy coloring your actions and results.

Imagine if you feel like a failure. I advise you to write a guest post for me. You tell me you are lazy, have no ideas, cannot do it, need to take a few months off, etc. I offer you an opportunity to promote your success but since you are BEING a failure and feeling like a failure you are blind to the DOINGs (generous guest posting) of a successful blogger. See what I mean? Plus, if you seize the guest posting opportunity while feeling like a complete failure, either the post quality stinks or you write a masterpiece by the odd chance, that nobody reads. Nobody read it because you are feeling/being a failure, so, you see failure results.

100% of the time, blogging is energy. Being a success means blogging your fun, doing what feels easy and natural to you, trusting in self and the process, and feeling uncomfortable along the way.

  •  
  •  
  •  
  • 1
Continue Reading

Blogging

Why Does Blogging Seem Hard?

Published

on

Aha!

The question of blogging questions.

Why does blogging seem hard?

Blogging in and of itself is not hard. Blogging is a concept. A blog is an inanimate object. It is neutral. It is not hard, tough or easy.

Human beings label their feelings with emotions. THIS is why blogging seems hard.

Why?

Doing the neutral activity of blogging feels scary, meaning you unearth and either resist or feel fears. Feeling the fears feels highly unpleasant. Especially if said fears feel deep, strong, and terrifying, depressing or anger-inducing.

But if you resist these deep fears, and refuse to feel them, and blog mainly from a dominant vibe of fear, you fully experience the feeling of blogging being super hard. Blogging is actually neutral but you refuse to feel deep fears that blogging has unearthed. You resisting fear leads to prolonged blogging failure, aka, not seeing much money and traffic, aka, blogging being really hard.

Real World Example

A few moments ago, I scanned one of my daily blogging income streams. I made a little less than I had been making for 1 of a billion reasons. 1 such reason may have been the internet crashing here last night. We experienced a few big, powerful thunderstorms.

Anyway, I noted the dollar amount being lower and felt fear arise in my body. Rather than resist the fear, I felt the anxiety, and my mind hurriedly racing ahead to next month’s paycheck, and then, after breathing deeply for a few moments and fully embracing the fear, I released it. I did not resist it. I felt it. The fear disappeared. I then blog from an abundant, relaxed, detached, generous energy, which helps me become more and more successful.

But the old me – and most bloggers – see a lesser dollar amount for daily earnings, feel an intense fear arise, panic, bury the fear versus feeling it, and run around like mad men and mad women with that DEEP FEAR DRIVING THEM, desperate and greedy, resisting the fear, being driven by fear, and of course, they do stupid stuff with a dominant fear energy guaranteeing their blogging failure. Then, these humans who refuse to face, embrace and feel fears, proclaim blogging to be hard. This is a lie. Blogging is neutral. But you refuse to face, embrace and release your fears, so blogging *feels* hard.

Solution

Feel fears when fears arise. Cry it out. Shout it out. Feel depressed or deflated.  Do not resist fear. Then, after feeling fears, you will feel good, detached, relaxed and trusting. Feeling these dominant abundant energies, you will create, connect, trust, persist and blog from a relaxed, chill energy. Blogging from this calm, trusting, generous energy makes blogging easier and easier and easier. Money flows in easy. Traffic flows in easy.

Blogging went from hard to easy because you faced fears, felt fears, and progressively blogged from an abundant, generous, calm, detached vibe.

Tip for Feeling Fear

Engage in some energy management ritual that expands your awareness. I do deep yin yoga and power walk daily. Prayer and/or meditation may help. Breathing deeply helps. Do anything that expands your awareness so you can observe and feel fear versus resisting this destructive energy.

Some humans bury fear with busy-ness and jobs they hate. Other people turn to drugs or alcohol to bury fears. All of these folks are unhappy and depressed because you cannot feel good, abundant, relaxed and successful with oodles of fear buried deep inside of you.

Be with your fears. Be gentle with yourself. The blogger who feels and releases fear soon learns blogging gets easier and easier.

  •  
  •  
  •  
  • 1
Continue Reading

Blogging

Do You Need to Respond to ALL Comments?

Published

on

No.

One mistake holds back many bloggers who fail to scale. These folks obsess over responding to every single comment, every email, every message. Why? Pride. Obsession. Attachment to people. Fear of missing out on an opportunity. Fear of missing out on friendships.

Unfortunately, if you spend 14 hours daily responding to every single social request and chat and email and blog comment and message – even if it feels fun – you lose opportunities to scale through blog posts, guest posts, podcasts and doing interviews.

Please; if responding to virtually everything feels fun, do it. But 99% of bloggers BS themselves on this because they respond to EVERYONE from an energy of fear, pain, lack, resistance, force and hustle. Bad idea guys. Force negates. But, power attracts. Meaning if you are willing to use power, and love, and fun, to inject into your work, you quickly see: the cornerstone of massive scaling and persistent growth and freeing blogging success is writing, publishing and placing blog posts and guest posts.

Example

Today, how do I have most fun growing my business, reaching more people, helping more people, and leveraging my blogging presence? Do I achieve these feats by spending 3 hours responding individually to every retweet, Like, blog comment, and so on, and so on? Nope. I spend those 3 hours effectively and efficiently by writing and publishing 3-6 blog posts and guest posts. Blog posts and guest posts scale. Blog posts and guest posts help me reach hundreds to thousands of targeted folks through each blog post and guest post.

Blog posts and guest posts never seem to be written by people who complain about having no time to blog post, and, guest post. Meanwhile, a hefty chunk of these humans spend 1, 2 or 3 hours responding to every Like on Facebook, from a strained, forced energy, fearing they miss out on traffic and bonds, not having fun doing it. But the wise move would be spending 10 minutes responding to comments on Facebook and maybe a few Likes, then, devoting 2-3 hours to writing and publishing blog posts and guest posts.

Think Scale Not Small Time

WAY too many bloggers play small, giving most of their attention and energy to building 1 to 1 bonds. Making friends is important but meeting new friends is even more important.

One lesson I learned from millionaire bloggers: scaling through blog posts and guest posts is the quickest way to reach more people, make more money and increase your blog traffic. Building 1 to 1 bonds by engaging commentors plays a role in succeeding online, but the top bloggers on earth are not running around, spending endless hours responding to Likes on Facebook.

Titans scale.

Titans also build one to one bonds through engagement, but if you are not getting 1000 page views a day, something is wrong in the scaling department. Namely, you are playing it small, not thinking about scaling. Scale. Guest post. Post to your blog. Make this the focus of your day. Then, feel free to engage folks 1 to 1 in a limited time frame.

You need to let go responding to every single person all day long to genuinely scale, to reach an increasing number of folks and to do what matters most to your business.

People will buy your stuff without you engaging them. Guaranteed. Folks will find your blog, love your content and buy your course or eBooks. This is a simple, organic process that you muck up every time you believe you need to respond to and engage every single person who reaches out via all online channels.

  •  
  •  
  •  
  • 1
Continue Reading










Trending