I just wrapped up another 10 mile run.
I run 10 miles every other day, nose-breathing the entire way to ensure that I coast at my pace and to also develop my lung capacity.
In running, swimming or biking, you often hear top athletes speak of finding their pace.
Not too fast. Not too slow.
Blogging is no different.
Becoming successful through the art of delivering value and making blogging buddies persistently requires you to develop your blogging pace.
Watch this Periscope video I filmed to explain the idea of pace, and the analogy I draw between running and blogging.
running and blogging? ???????? https://t.co/3TgLsRMLqA
— Ryan Biddulph (@RyanBiddulph) October 6, 2017
Not too Fast
When I run in Central Park during one of our house sits I am often lapped by runners heaving laboriously, sounding as if they will drop dead any second.
This is not only dangerous for their hearts and overall health; it all but ensures these people will burn out at best, or even worse, get a horribly injury.
Meanwhile, I run my 10 miles, easily, nose-breathing the whole way, and I have been known to walk for 100 blocks with Kelli immediately after the run. No big deal. I don’t go too fast. I go at my pace.
No injuries. No burn out. I am like clock work, week after week, coasting through my 10.
Ditto for my blogging journey. I have written and published over 370 blog posts here on Blogging Tips because I have honored my pace, not going too fast, not burning out.
You will experience increasing success the moment you find your calm, confident, continuous blogging pace, not going too fast nor too slow.
Not too Slow
Don’t get it twisted; when finding your blogging pace, you won’t go too slowly.
I am running, not walking, or crawling, nor am I sitting inside the house for weeks at a time because I am not ready for exercise.
I patiently built my pace to where I calmly glide through 10 miles, nose-breathing the whole way.
Sometimes I feel discomfort but move forward; I don’t walk or quit. I keep going. But I am not pushing myself; rather, I am allowing my pace to carry me through the run.
These moments of discomfort are rare for me because I have found my pace and all goes smoothly, naturally and calmly.
Blogging-wise, you can’t go too slowly. Becoming successful requires you to keep going at a decent clip to write posts, guest posts and effective blog comments, over the long haul.
When you hit your pace, that super sweet spot, all will feel just right.
Even if you feel uncomfortable at times it won’t be the bone-jarring, shocking discomfort that most folks experience, who do not patiently find their pace.
Hey; you will be scared sometimes. Being highly uncomfortable here and there is required for you to find your pace.
But in the same regard, your success momentum will carry you from day to day, you will outlast virtually all bloggers and you will progressively become more successful as your blogging star shines brightly through the power of persistence.
Like when I am nose-breathing and moving gracefully as I wrap up my 10 mile run, you too will go from success to success without breaking a real sweat, or without burning yourself out.
Leave Your Comfort Zone
Finding your pace requires you to leave your comfort zone.
You will not sprint out of your comfort zone, for sprinters go too fast, burn out and have little longevity.
You will not meekly move outside of your comfort zone, waiting weeks or months to write your first guest post, or eBook.
You will boldly but calmly and clearly leave your comfort zone, nudging your fears and delving into scary situations, in order to find your pace.
All success is found outside of your comfort zone.
When you feel and release the fear of desperation, you cease sprinting and move in a more calm, relaxed, controlled but very bold fashion, into your fears, to promote your blogging success.
How are you establishing pace with your blog?
Please share your thoughts below.
How to Get Over the Fear Nobody Will Buy Your Product
Promote the heck out of the product. Unearth fears. Feel fears. See fears come true. Release fears. Sell your product. More and more folks buy your product only if you face, feel and release fears aligned with the product. If you hold the fears ya ain’t selling the product. Even if you publish a blogging product – like my blogging course – and sell it for a little bit you will not generate big sales until you fail enough to finally feel fears triggered by failure. Feeling fears clears fears which clears resistance which helps you inspire more people to buy the product.
Getting over this fear is messy. Do you enjoy feeling like a complete loser? Nope. Do you enjoy feeling like a complete fraud, or huckster, or embarrassed or ashamed? Nope. You hate trying so hard and then, no freaking people buy the course you promoted 10,000 times but doing so and feeling fears triggered simply makes it easy to promote the product, because feeling and getting over the fear makes you promote the product like you breathe. Being in that space, plenty of people see the product and more folks buy the product.
I promoted my blogging course to the tune of 8,000 page views before someone bought it. 8000 page views was nothing. I had to clear fear-resistance during the 8,000 page views to show the world how fun, freeing and inspired this course was. Fear cleared, more people bought it at 10 times the initial price versus the initial cheapy price. Raising the price ten fold? Yep; another fear for me to conquer. But I did it, and far more people bought it at $350 than at $36. See how funny fear works? You fear something, refuse to feel the fear, and struggle. But feeling the fear and doing it anyway leads to increasing success. Buy the course for a fun, entertaining, inspired blogging guide. Tis the season for celebration and joy and love and fun, helpful blogging courses.
I have no tips for nudging into fear save meditating and doing yoga frequently. Following each habit expands your awareness which helps you become intimately aware of your fears, so you can feel fears and release fears. Feels rough but this is part of the blogging journey if you want to get over the fear of selling your stuff. Hey; do you want to hurt people, mislead people or lie to people with your blogging product? No? Then just sell the thing already. Ship it. Publish it. Fear is so insidious. Fear makes you do what you do not want to do, if you trust fear. Fear causes you to tune into an alternate, illusory universe, where nothing is true and everything is lies, smoke and mirrors. Do you really want to take that road? I did not think so.
All I can do is be a cheerleader. You need to be the athlete on the court, not the fan on the sidelines. Get on the court. Publish your product. Promote your product. You will eventually face, feel and release all the fears you need to release to become a successful blogger and to sell your product successfully, too. Get in the game. People will buy your product when you get clear on it.
Pro Blogging Tip: Release Expectations
Am I asking you to be a Blogging Buddha? Nope. Not really. No one save enlightened beings completely releases expectations but us mere mortals clinging some to a worldly life can largely release expectations, to become successful and to enjoy the blogging journey. 10 minutes ago, I checked my email. I received a few. I clearly make it difficult to get in touch with me through email because I want to give most attention and energy to building a passive income empire. Every second I spend in email, I could be spending creating content and building connections. Knowing this, it feels good to receive few emails because it helps me scale and move forward from an abundant energy.
Unfortunately, most bloggers have heavy expectations when it comes to receiving email. Bloggers expect a chock filled inbox, with all types of clients, Paypal payments and sponsored post deals. What happens if you get 3 emails daily, all responses to comments? Your expectations not being met levels you, depressing you, making you sad, sapping your energy. If you expect some sweet outcome and reality is not delivering you the outcome to fulfill the expectation, you eventually lose your blogging motivation and quit. Or you make the massive mistake of quitting after seeing your expectations fall short, then, you begin blogging again, quit again after expectations are unfulfilled, and you suffer through this vicious cycle until you fail and quit for good.
Release expectations. Begin blogging with an intent to live your dreams but let go the anchor of expectation because either you feel hopeless after not getting what you expected or you feel average when expectations line up or you feel super high and excited after exceeding expectations, leading to an imminent crash after your emotions settle down. Expectations are anchors, pulling you down, holding you back, preventing meteoric blogging growth. I expect little to nothing blogging-wise because my day is about having fun helping people to blog successfully. I cannot go wrong whether I sell a copy of my blogging course or not because I have no expectations; I just promote the course in a seeming billion places (coming soon) and leave things at that.
If anything, allow a little part of yourself to desire some expectation but make it tiny. Why? If the expectation does not come true quickly, you will keep blogging from an energetic, relaxed, abundant vibe, positioning yourself to succeed. Harboring wee expectations means you remain unstirred if the expectations do not manifest; no crushed, hopeless feeling. Meanwhile, most bloggers with grand, wild expectations often slam into tons of resistance because no spectacular dream comes through and manifest overnight. Living your dream life through blogging requires years and thousands upon thousands of hours of generous service.
Blog for an absolute love of blogging. Be passionate about the blogging process. Release largely on outcomes because weighing yourself down with expectations slows you down. Imagine desiring big blogging bucks only to see an empty inbox for the next 3 months? 90 plus days, zero dollars. After the 90th day, most bloggers quit blogging for good, because they came up so short on their expectations, being frustrated, disgusted, and tired of wasting their time.
Fall in love with the process – not outcomes – to fuel yourself for your blogging journey.
Are You Trying to Rank or Help People?
Check the intent behind your blogging actions. What are your drivers? Some bloggers desperately want to rank, to place articles on page 1 of Google, to drive sweet, passive search engine traffic. Good luck with that. Nobody succeeds ranking until you give virtually all of your attention and energy to helping people with your blogging efforts. The rank comes after the generous help and that generous help often spans years of your life because developing page 1 Google skills is no joke. If it were easy, everybody would rank on page 1, right?
But you would be surprised by how many folks struggle blogging because the focus on rank over help dominates their minds. I never fell afflicted to this common limiting belief because I give scant attention to ranking on Google. Most of me could care less. I help people through my guest posts, blog posts, course and eBooks. My intent is to help people not to try to get traffic and money through manipulating things. Be honest about the big difference between the two because making this shift will improve your life tremendously, along with positioning you to experience increasing blogging success.
Focus heavily on people and little on things to discover the secret of blogging success. Bloggers succeed by generously helping human beings for sustained periods of time. Imagine some blogger who appears to be all over their blogging niche. Study this individual. Guaranteed, this bloggers generously helped people for years, hours daily, through multiple methods of helping people. Imagine guest posting, blogging, broadcasting live on Facebook and podcasting. See how the top bloggers always seem to be assisting people from a generous, genuine energy? Be that person. The tops never obsess over ranking because doing so attaches you to outcomes. Attach to outcomes. Feel fear. Attachment is fear. Any time you blog from a vibe of fear, you will struggle, fail and quit eventually. Top bloggers feel fears but release the energies versus panicking and bailing on generously helping readers. Everybody else panics, bails and tries to manipulate things to get traffic and money, failing horribly over the long haul.
Nobody gets ahead trying to manipulate things because money flows through humans mainly, then, through things which act as receiving channels. Imagine if I sell a copy of my blogging course. Generously helping human beings instills trust in the person who bought my course. Money flows from them to me through Selz, and my bank account, from their credit card or bank account. The things – Selz, bank accounts – are receiving channels, facilitating the sending and receiving of money, but generous service and trust put the financial transaction into action.
Stop trying to rank before all else because dealing with things solely – SEO and Google – moves you out of the realm of reality, into thing-ality. Bloggers who succeed keep helping folks generously and keep promoting themselves, realizing the things are just tools humans use to connect with each other, to help each other and to prosper each other. Focus on helping humans, not trying to rank on page 1 of Google, to uncover the secret to successful blogging….and to uncover the secret of ranking on page 1 of Google.
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