Take a chill pill guys.
Creating content and relaxing is a simple way to see greater blogging success. Why? Power attracts and force negates.
Alonzo Pichardo is one of the best guys online for putting this concept into action. He publishes content and simply allows it to do what it does. Posture. Power. Instead of rushing around in fear, like a chicken with your head cut off, trying to promote a piece of content so people see it, fearing people cannot see it unless you promote the stuffing out of it, you publish, relax, and let your post echo.
Imagine sitting in a huge concert hall. Nobody there. Pure reverb. You speak a soft whisper, from an energy of relaxation, no tension, and the sound carries far and wide, amplified by the environment. This is the power of calmness. You did not need scream for your voice to carry. Nor did you need to sprint to 50 places in the concert hall to speak your message. You had posture, put yourself in the proper environment, whispered, and nature took care of the rest.
Imagine a still pond, totally undisturbed, spanning 50 miles wide. Now visualize dropping a tiny pebble into the pond. See how the waves carry forever? Again; this is the power of calmness, serenity and relaxation in action. Publish content. Cede control. Let the content do, what it does.
What About Heavy Promotion?
Does promoting posts heavily feel relaxing and peaceful to you? If yes, carry on. But 99.99% of bloggers I know feel:
if they do not promote a post after publishing a post. None of these energies are relaxation. All of these energies are tension and fear. Be honest. Be straight with yourself. Be clear with yourself. I had to be clear with myself to genuinely create and relax, being a control freak at times. Publishing a post and hitting Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn share buttons allows the content to carry far and wide because my fear-tension-controlling does not lessen its reach, through my tension.
Know Your Content Is Shareworthy Without Sharing It
Release the mental block that you need to share content for people to share it. People gladly share solid content if you allow the process to unfold. Most bloggers are anything but relaxed after publishing posts, never allowing the process of organic sharing to take root, because their fear and controlling nature mucks everything up. Guilty as charged for much of my online career; now I learned, finally, once and for all, that good content combined with my clarity and relaxation allows my content to carry far and wide.
Inside Out Game
Blogging is an inside out game. Most bloggers, within, are similar to a raging, hurricane-roiled ocean of fear and tension within…..pure chaos. If you dropped the Empire State Building into this maelstrom, nobody notices. But if you face, embrace and release deep fears, around controlling, deserving, worthiness and trust, you see something awesome happen; the hurricane-roiled waters gradually transition into that calm, still pond, I discussed earlier in the post, and dropping a tiny pebble creates waves traveling far and wide.
What About Lists and Social Media and Promotion?
If email list building, social media and heavy promotion feel relaxing to you, engage. But again, take away virtually all blogger’s lists, and we will see how relaxed these people are. Talk about fear! I know of seasoned marketers who feared losing 1 subscriber, let alone their entire list. This is not relaxation, but tension, and force, which negates, and eats into organic, natural traffic, that easily flows to calm, confident, poised, trusting bloggers.
Guys; you need to be straight with yourself. I am not advising you to be a fully, 100% detached Blogging Buddha, not caring or being attached to anything. But largely, you should be totally relaxed and chill about email lists, social media, and the like, because if like most bloggers you fear you need lists and social media and heavy promotion, that tension destroys your relaxation, reduces your pure organic reach and dissolves much of your trust in self, and knowing of your success.
You rock. Success is yours. Allow your helpful content to do what it does, carrying far and wide.
What About Blogging Buddies?
Make blogging buddies from a detached, fun loving, generous, relaxed energy but most of all, believe deeply in yourself and your success-promoting abilities. Friends help amplify your success but you often see that followers who find you via pure organic channels become your most loyal clients, customers and followers. Network but relax. Be calm, cool and collected. Stop fearing that you need someone or something outside of you to succeed. Friends are complements to your success but all success flows from within, as you trust the process and enjoy creating and connecting from a chill space.
Do Not Panic
Many bloggers nod at this post. Feels good, maintaining this energy/frame of mind, right? But after writing and publishing a post, a strong fear emerges; if you do not heavily promote the post, nobody will read it. Like all fears, this is 100% untrue, a complete lie. In this moment of deep fear and tension, you either panic and cave into the fear, rushing around in a resistant, tense, fear-filled promotion blitz, or you relax, allow the fear to pass, and understand what true posture and genuine organic traffic is all about.
Start believing in yourself and abilities. Seeing success and making buddies gets easier the more you believe in you.
What Bloggers Can Learn from Advanced Dish Washing Machines
Blogging can be compared to a lot of different things, such as writers, authors, newspapers, and even media outlets. However, have you ever considered blogging quite similar to that of a dishwashing machine?
If not, you aren’t alone.
Just like a dishwashing machine, there are many different components to having a sucessful website, blog, and content on your site. All of which are also influenced by how well your writing is, and the type of audience you are attracting. But there are also many little tools, components, features, and levels of expertise factored in along the way.
With all of these little elements in mind and working all together, blogging can also be quite similar to the way advanced appliances and dish washing machines work and improve our lives on a daily basis.
How Blogging is a Lot Like a Dishwasher
Sure, it might seem funny at first to compare something like a home appliance that does cleaning, to the extremely vast and complex world of blogging — however, when it comes to creating content and coming up with new ideas on how to get more creative with content than ever before… this is just a perfect example!
To bring this concept and mentallity altogether, let’s take a look at the Bosch 500 Series Dishwasher, which is quickly making headlines and gaining attention for it’s ease of use and advanced technhology.
Below you will find a listing of each of it’s features, and then how one could apply such a feature or setting into that of a blog as well.
A little fresh air equals a lot more dry.
The Bosch 500 Series Dishwasher claims AutoAir™ automatically opens the door at the end of the drying cycle to let moisture escape and fresh air circulate for better drying results.* (*Compared to Bosch Dishwashers with PureDry.)
— A fresh breath of air can do a lot for a dish washing machine when it comes to cleanliness and drying. However, the same definitely applies to that of a website, blog, or content creation as well. It’s never easy to come up with new content all the time for your sites, so every once in a while, be sure to take a fresh breath of air and see what type of new content or topics you might want to start writing about.
There’s room for up to 16 place settings. Plus, 5 wash cycles including five-level wash, 5 options like Extra Dry, and a concealed heating element.
— Much like a website or blog, there is always room for additional content, plugins, settings and theme. Just like a dishwasher, you don’t want to load it up so it’s jam packed and hard to clean everything thats inside. So with this in mind, think about how you can better organize the content on your site and the tools that allow it to run at it’s best performance, while also eliminating the junk.
Flexible 3rd rack
Accommodate the odd one out. Adding the 3rd rack with its adjustable tines can create the right fit for deep, tall, or uniquely-shaped items.
Load and unload smoothly. It’s easy to adjust and move the racks, even while they’re full of dishes.
Fit it all, every time. With 3 different height levels and up to 9 possible rack positions, you can customize each load for your needs.
— Just like how a dishwashing machine has additional rack for better storage and management, the web hosting associated with your site likely can do the same. However, it’s not always about getting as much space as possible, but instead knowing how to best optimize the space and resources you are working with. After all, you don’t want to throw all of your utensil (site articles) on the top rack and have them fall out of place. You would instead use the utensil rack to make sure they are all in one place and maximizing the performance of cleaning throughout your washing. In blogging terms, this can also be associated as having one powerful web hosting solution that is optimized for WordPress, so it’s running at peak peformance at all times.
Protect your floors. This 4-part leak prevention system uses sensors to detect and stop leaks, and can even turn on by itself.
— One of the worst things that can happen with a dishwasher, is to have it leak water all over your kitchen. With an Aquastop in place, this can help stop leaks before they start. The best way to compare such a feature to a blog, would be to have an anti-virus and hack security solution in place. This can often be done by adding a security WordPress plugin, or going with a higher end hosting solution that offers 24/7 backup and advanced security of their own.
44-dBA noise level rating
Wash dishes in peace. Bosch dishwashers are so quiet, you have to check the exterior Infolight® to know they’re on.
— Dishwashing machines come in all different shapes and sizes. No matter how big it is, you are going to want to make sure it’s night and quiet. When a dishwasher is made by Bosch, they are made by a name and brand that is known for excellence and superior products. The same type of mindset needs to be applied when choosing a web hosting or monetization platform for your blog as well. Go with a hosting solution that is reliable and has a well-branded name. And when it comes to choosing a propert monetization method for your site, go with one that has a proven track record and success as well.
How Bloggers and Like Top of the Line Dishwashing Machines
Yes, the idea that bloggers are like dishwashing machines might have seemed a little silly at the beginning, but after reading through the article, you might have a bit more of a clear picture on why it’s true.
Bloggers and dish washing machines will each continue to develop over time, while also learning how to adapt to the changing enviornments around them and impriving over time.
So the next time you see your dishwashing machine… you might just think about blogging as well!
Is Creating or Connecting More Important in Blogging?
Creating and connecting are equally important elements in becoming a successful blogger. Creating content without building friendships means nobody knows about your content. Imagine publishing posts in a cyber cave. No one finds you and no one finds and reads your content. Connecting without creating content means nobody trusts you because you did not prove you know your stuff through creating helpful, valuable content. Imagine a high volume of traffic finds your blog through your friend network. What do people see? Nothing. Or, thin content, weakly created. You can be friends with 10,000 bloggers but if you share little valuable content you cannot gain trust or earn credibility.
This is why you need to create helpful content and build strong connections with leaders in your blogging niche.
Create helpful content solving reader content through blog posts, guest post, videos and podcasts. Give readers value to become valuable in their eyes. I publish 7 to 10 or more pieces of helpful content daily to display I know what I talk about, blogging-wise. People come across my content – through my friend network – and trust my advice because I’ve been helping people through free content for years.
People dig the free-mium and buy the premium. Make money blogging by creating oodles of helpful, free content to improve your skills and to gain credibility.
If you do not create content people will not trust you. Try succeeding online with zero credibility; not gonna happen. Prove you know your stuff. Create helpful free content to prove you know your niche and to inspire readers to trust you.
Connect with top bloggers in your niche. Help them. Ask for nothing. Expect nothing. Bonds form. Friendships develop. Top bloggers promote you, endorse you, hire you and buy your stuff, amplifying your reach and multiplying your success.
Comment genuinely on top blogs from your niche. Promote top bloggers on your blog and through social media. Be generous. Ask for nothing in return. Prove you are interested in the blogger, NOT solely in what the blogger can do for you. Bonds form. Sweet blogging success flows your way.
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Imagine trying to blog without connecting, as thousands of bloggers do. Write a post. Publish the post. Share to Facebook. Retweet on Twitter. Sit there. See what happens. Wait. No traffic. No profits. Why? Literally, you publish content for your eyes only until you network generously and make friends. Nobody knows you or trusts you because you blog solo, all day long. Nobody trusts someone who is a lone wolf, who is not a team player, because you do not listen to other people and generously serve people and help people and do all the things successful bloggers do, to prove they listen, they process and they help.
Connect. Expand your reach by growing your friend network. Make blogging easier. Have fun making friends. Prosper.
Begin creating and connecting from day 1 as a blogger. Begin creating helpful content solving reader needs and connect by commenting genuinely on blogs and by promoting fellow bloggers. Success will be yours if you follow these 2 basic blogging fundamentals.
Be patient. Good things require both generous service and time.
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Why Are You So Quick to Quit Blogging?
Why are you so quick to quit blogging? Ask yourself that question. Wait for an honest answer. Most bloggers quit because they do not see instant results. This is delusion. This is a silly way to filter blogging. Blogging takes time, effort, generosity and trust. Develop the states of mind and you will never quit until you become a full-time blogger. But if you do not develop the states of mind you will quit quite quickly.
Be straight with yourself. Being honest about your blogging intent gives you a truthful perspective on your blogging journey. I was impatient as a new blogger and ran into all types of problems with my blog. I wanted to get rich quick. I wanted fast, easy traffic. I wanted to get something for nothing. I experienced a massive reality check because numbers did not increase for me as a new blogger. Everything actually seemed to fall apart. I went in the opposite direction of success. I seem to move directly toward failure.
After experiencing some rough moments I quit for short periods of time. Plus even when I blogged, I quit on sound, proven strategies. I was stupid. I was greedy. I was desperate. I quit blogging because I felt at the time blogging quit on me. But I made the choice to quit on blogging and to quit on following a proven, sound blogging system so this was all my fault. 100% of the time, if you struggle with your blog it is your fault. Take ownership of your struggles and take ownership of your quitting. Move in a more freeing, fun direction that allows you to see increasing success.
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Do not quit on blogging so quickly. Good things take time. Good things take generous service. But if you are filled with fear you cannot possibly see the journey through because you will quit the split second you feel frustrated or annoyed or hopeless with the blogging process. Bloggers who quit quickly simply fill their minds with fear and poverty and scarcity and lack. See scarcity, be scarcity, and you will quit really quickly because you see no possibility or opportunity or growth with your blog.
Shift your mind from scarcity to abundance by facing your fears. Feel your blogging fears. Clear these energies. See abundance around you. See your growth. Observe opportunities unfolding before your very eyes all of the time. What does it take for you to publish a genuine comment below after reading this post? Literally, about 30 seconds. But those 30 seconds can boost your blog traffic and position you to befriend top bloggers. Quitters blind themselves to these opportunities because they are so mired in fear and scarcity. Winners sees opportunities because they vibe love and abundance.
Stop being so quick to quit blogging. Feel your fears. Purge your fears. Move into abundant, generous actions that yield stunning blogging success over the long haul. Nobody succeeds overnight by quitting fast but successful bloggers who see the journey through ride out frustrating periods and free themselves through this amazing online medium. Do not quit blogging. Do not be quick to quit this inspired medium for fun, freedom and service. You have so much blogging potential. Seize it. Use it. Be present with your mental blocks. Allow your fears to move along. Do not quit blogging so darn quickly like the masses of aspiring bloggers. Ride out those tough moments. Be with your fears. See the blogging journey through to become a stunningly successful, full-time blogger.
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