How quickly do you collapse like a house of cards when someone wants to land a $5 sponsored post on your site because they are on a budget and you fear losing money, or need the $5 to pay bills? This is having the posture of limp, cooked, pasta. You are mush.
How quickly do you angrily block or complain about the same person who wants to offer you a steep, volume discount for sponsored posts? No way can they afford a $1000 sponsored post for a single post but they can offer you a quantity of 200, $5 posts, for the next 5-10 years. Does this person anger you, annoy you or agitate you? Guess what? You have the posture of raw, uncooked, brittle pasta, breaking the split second someone annoys you.
Do you have the blogging posture of pasta? Either you turn to mush and agree with crap pay because you feel desperate or you anger and break, being triggered by cheapies, and bring annoyance with you throughout your day, messing up your vibe.
How about this option? Feel abundant, whole and complete to completely ignore fear. Develop the blogging posture of granite. Be completely unmoved at anyone, if pitchers arrive from fear energy. Nobody can trigger you into a 5 dollar sponsored post price. Nobody can torment you into feeling annoyed for longer than 5 seconds. Talk about freedom. Talk about liberation. Talk about relaxation. Talk about developing genuine blogging posture.
Why Be Posturing?
Big blogging freedom, money and traffic flows to posturing bloggers because said bloggers:
- feel calm no matter who finds their inbox
- only agree to people who pay their price
- never agree to cheap prices
- stand firm without being annoyed at fear-filled bloggers who pitch and beg desperately
I will give you a perfect example.
Imagine someone asks for your best sponsored post price. You email with your $1000 sponsored post price. The blogger responds with the price being way too expensive. Maybe your metrics do not warrant the price in their humble opinion. But they promise to pay you $5 for the post. Genuinely prospering bloggers who know success is theirs and believe 100% in themselves ignore the response email to move forward. No annoyance. No wasted energy. No justifying. No bartering.
The only reason why you:
- feel annoyed
- feel agitated
- get angry
- agree to a cheap, $5 price
- agree to a cheap, $10 volume discount
is because the non-posturing, fear in you agrees with their cheap-fear on some level, and it feels bad, really bad. In reality, you lack genuine, granite-like posture, and need feel your fears to release the fears to have granite-like posture. I almost have granite-like, un-moving blogging posture now but still get a little annoyed sometimes when someone tells me my price fits not into their budget. Oh well. I am more calm than I used to be. I tend to ignore fear-driven bloggers who budget, barter, cajole and follow up 2, 4 or 10 times with desperate pleas to place sponsored posts, guest posts, and cross promotions.
I see through their fear and refused to get involved with it. Does that make sense? I see through it versus engaging and feeling annoyed or agitated. Plus I never, ever, ever agree to rates under my prices. Either you pay or move on. Imagine managing a grocery store. What would you do if someone promised to pay 2 cents for a $2 can of beans? You would ignore them and get on with your work. Either they pay $2 for the beans or go home, manifest the $2 and return to buy the full price for the beans. Imagine someone asking you if you accept $5 for a $200 consultation fee for your doctor services? Think about it. Would you agree to the $5 or politely alert the person of your $200 fee and get back to work? Either they pay the $200 or go home to get $200 to pay your fee. No debating, no annoyance, just a neutral means of exchange.
Doctors, lawyers and store managers have posture because each feels clear on their offering. Pay to get service or do not pay and do not get service. As a blogger, adopt the same clear, knowing posture. Trust implicitly in yourself. Trust 100% that you are being taken care of. Believe in you. Do not give into fear from others. See through the illusion. Feel whole, complete, abundant and confident to see a whole, complete, abundant world in your experience. If you feel abundant you see through and ignore people who do not act abundantly. Some fear-filled people try to get me to do stuff from fear but I see through their illusion and move on without cowering to their fear or without angering in reaction to their fear.
Be clear. Have blogging posture like a slab of granite. Be unmoved. See greater success as your posture positions you to receive greater blog traffic and even greater blogging profits.
What Bloggers Can Learn from Advanced Dish Washing Machines
Blogging can be compared to a lot of different things, such as writers, authors, newspapers, and even media outlets. However, have you ever considered blogging quite similar to that of a dishwashing machine?
If not, you aren’t alone.
Just like a dishwashing machine, there are many different components to having a sucessful website, blog, and content on your site. All of which are also influenced by how well your writing is, and the type of audience you are attracting. But there are also many little tools, components, features, and levels of expertise factored in along the way.
With all of these little elements in mind and working all together, blogging can also be quite similar to the way advanced appliances and dish washing machines work and improve our lives on a daily basis.
How Blogging is a Lot Like a Dishwasher
Sure, it might seem funny at first to compare something like a home appliance that does cleaning, to the extremely vast and complex world of blogging — however, when it comes to creating content and coming up with new ideas on how to get more creative with content than ever before… this is just a perfect example!
To bring this concept and mentallity altogether, let’s take a look at the Bosch 500 Series Dishwasher, which is quickly making headlines and gaining attention for it’s ease of use and advanced technhology.
Below you will find a listing of each of it’s features, and then how one could apply such a feature or setting into that of a blog as well.
A little fresh air equals a lot more dry.
The Bosch 500 Series Dishwasher claims AutoAir™ automatically opens the door at the end of the drying cycle to let moisture escape and fresh air circulate for better drying results.* (*Compared to Bosch Dishwashers with PureDry.)
— A fresh breath of air can do a lot for a dish washing machine when it comes to cleanliness and drying. However, the same definitely applies to that of a website, blog, or content creation as well. It’s never easy to come up with new content all the time for your sites, so every once in a while, be sure to take a fresh breath of air and see what type of new content or topics you might want to start writing about.
There’s room for up to 16 place settings. Plus, 5 wash cycles including five-level wash, 5 options like Extra Dry, and a concealed heating element.
— Much like a website or blog, there is always room for additional content, plugins, settings and theme. Just like a dishwasher, you don’t want to load it up so it’s jam packed and hard to clean everything thats inside. So with this in mind, think about how you can better organize the content on your site and the tools that allow it to run at it’s best performance, while also eliminating the junk.
Flexible 3rd rack
Accommodate the odd one out. Adding the 3rd rack with its adjustable tines can create the right fit for deep, tall, or uniquely-shaped items.
Load and unload smoothly. It’s easy to adjust and move the racks, even while they’re full of dishes.
Fit it all, every time. With 3 different height levels and up to 9 possible rack positions, you can customize each load for your needs.
— Just like how a dishwashing machine has additional rack for better storage and management, the web hosting associated with your site likely can do the same. However, it’s not always about getting as much space as possible, but instead knowing how to best optimize the space and resources you are working with. After all, you don’t want to throw all of your utensil (site articles) on the top rack and have them fall out of place. You would instead use the utensil rack to make sure they are all in one place and maximizing the performance of cleaning throughout your washing. In blogging terms, this can also be associated as having one powerful web hosting solution that is optimized for WordPress, so it’s running at peak peformance at all times.
Protect your floors. This 4-part leak prevention system uses sensors to detect and stop leaks, and can even turn on by itself.
— One of the worst things that can happen with a dishwasher, is to have it leak water all over your kitchen. With an Aquastop in place, this can help stop leaks before they start. The best way to compare such a feature to a blog, would be to have an anti-virus and hack security solution in place. This can often be done by adding a security WordPress plugin, or going with a higher end hosting solution that offers 24/7 backup and advanced security of their own.
44-dBA noise level rating
Wash dishes in peace. Bosch dishwashers are so quiet, you have to check the exterior Infolight® to know they’re on.
— Dishwashing machines come in all different shapes and sizes. No matter how big it is, you are going to want to make sure it’s night and quiet. When a dishwasher is made by Bosch, they are made by a name and brand that is known for excellence and superior products. The same type of mindset needs to be applied when choosing a web hosting or monetization platform for your blog as well. Go with a hosting solution that is reliable and has a well-branded name. And when it comes to choosing a propert monetization method for your site, go with one that has a proven track record and success as well.
How Bloggers and Like Top of the Line Dishwashing Machines
Yes, the idea that bloggers are like dishwashing machines might have seemed a little silly at the beginning, but after reading through the article, you might have a bit more of a clear picture on why it’s true.
Bloggers and dish washing machines will each continue to develop over time, while also learning how to adapt to the changing enviornments around them and impriving over time.
So the next time you see your dishwashing machine… you might just think about blogging as well!
Is Creating or Connecting More Important in Blogging?
Creating and connecting are equally important elements in becoming a successful blogger. Creating content without building friendships means nobody knows about your content. Imagine publishing posts in a cyber cave. No one finds you and no one finds and reads your content. Connecting without creating content means nobody trusts you because you did not prove you know your stuff through creating helpful, valuable content. Imagine a high volume of traffic finds your blog through your friend network. What do people see? Nothing. Or, thin content, weakly created. You can be friends with 10,000 bloggers but if you share little valuable content you cannot gain trust or earn credibility.
This is why you need to create helpful content and build strong connections with leaders in your blogging niche.
Create helpful content solving reader content through blog posts, guest post, videos and podcasts. Give readers value to become valuable in their eyes. I publish 7 to 10 or more pieces of helpful content daily to display I know what I talk about, blogging-wise. People come across my content – through my friend network – and trust my advice because I’ve been helping people through free content for years.
People dig the free-mium and buy the premium. Make money blogging by creating oodles of helpful, free content to improve your skills and to gain credibility.
If you do not create content people will not trust you. Try succeeding online with zero credibility; not gonna happen. Prove you know your stuff. Create helpful free content to prove you know your niche and to inspire readers to trust you.
Connect with top bloggers in your niche. Help them. Ask for nothing. Expect nothing. Bonds form. Friendships develop. Top bloggers promote you, endorse you, hire you and buy your stuff, amplifying your reach and multiplying your success.
Comment genuinely on top blogs from your niche. Promote top bloggers on your blog and through social media. Be generous. Ask for nothing in return. Prove you are interested in the blogger, NOT solely in what the blogger can do for you. Bonds form. Sweet blogging success flows your way.
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Imagine trying to blog without connecting, as thousands of bloggers do. Write a post. Publish the post. Share to Facebook. Retweet on Twitter. Sit there. See what happens. Wait. No traffic. No profits. Why? Literally, you publish content for your eyes only until you network generously and make friends. Nobody knows you or trusts you because you blog solo, all day long. Nobody trusts someone who is a lone wolf, who is not a team player, because you do not listen to other people and generously serve people and help people and do all the things successful bloggers do, to prove they listen, they process and they help.
Connect. Expand your reach by growing your friend network. Make blogging easier. Have fun making friends. Prosper.
Begin creating and connecting from day 1 as a blogger. Begin creating helpful content solving reader needs and connect by commenting genuinely on blogs and by promoting fellow bloggers. Success will be yours if you follow these 2 basic blogging fundamentals.
Be patient. Good things require both generous service and time.
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Why Are You So Quick to Quit Blogging?
Why are you so quick to quit blogging? Ask yourself that question. Wait for an honest answer. Most bloggers quit because they do not see instant results. This is delusion. This is a silly way to filter blogging. Blogging takes time, effort, generosity and trust. Develop the states of mind and you will never quit until you become a full-time blogger. But if you do not develop the states of mind you will quit quite quickly.
Be straight with yourself. Being honest about your blogging intent gives you a truthful perspective on your blogging journey. I was impatient as a new blogger and ran into all types of problems with my blog. I wanted to get rich quick. I wanted fast, easy traffic. I wanted to get something for nothing. I experienced a massive reality check because numbers did not increase for me as a new blogger. Everything actually seemed to fall apart. I went in the opposite direction of success. I seem to move directly toward failure.
After experiencing some rough moments I quit for short periods of time. Plus even when I blogged, I quit on sound, proven strategies. I was stupid. I was greedy. I was desperate. I quit blogging because I felt at the time blogging quit on me. But I made the choice to quit on blogging and to quit on following a proven, sound blogging system so this was all my fault. 100% of the time, if you struggle with your blog it is your fault. Take ownership of your struggles and take ownership of your quitting. Move in a more freeing, fun direction that allows you to see increasing success.
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Do not quit on blogging so quickly. Good things take time. Good things take generous service. But if you are filled with fear you cannot possibly see the journey through because you will quit the split second you feel frustrated or annoyed or hopeless with the blogging process. Bloggers who quit quickly simply fill their minds with fear and poverty and scarcity and lack. See scarcity, be scarcity, and you will quit really quickly because you see no possibility or opportunity or growth with your blog.
Shift your mind from scarcity to abundance by facing your fears. Feel your blogging fears. Clear these energies. See abundance around you. See your growth. Observe opportunities unfolding before your very eyes all of the time. What does it take for you to publish a genuine comment below after reading this post? Literally, about 30 seconds. But those 30 seconds can boost your blog traffic and position you to befriend top bloggers. Quitters blind themselves to these opportunities because they are so mired in fear and scarcity. Winners sees opportunities because they vibe love and abundance.
Stop being so quick to quit blogging. Feel your fears. Purge your fears. Move into abundant, generous actions that yield stunning blogging success over the long haul. Nobody succeeds overnight by quitting fast but successful bloggers who see the journey through ride out frustrating periods and free themselves through this amazing online medium. Do not quit blogging. Do not be quick to quit this inspired medium for fun, freedom and service. You have so much blogging potential. Seize it. Use it. Be present with your mental blocks. Allow your fears to move along. Do not quit blogging so darn quickly like the masses of aspiring bloggers. Ride out those tough moments. Be with your fears. See the blogging journey through to become a stunningly successful, full-time blogger.
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