One of the genuinely most bizarre things that bloggers do is judging their entire day by numbers on a screen. I just checked my email inbox. I saw one email. I received money from PayPal. Cool. Did I worry or stress out or fear that I received one email versus 20 or 30 or 40? Of course not. I don’t want email. I want to have fun helping people and make passive income all day long. That is my intent. Email pulls me away from that intent which pulls me away from a passive empire which pulls me away from a life of Fun and Freedom. Do you see how reframing your thinking and clarifying your intent helps you be free and successful? Do you also see why it’s a huge mistake to judge your day by numbers on a screen?
I recall panicking in the past when I felt that I did not receive enough emails in a day. This was silly but it was fear, too. Resisting fear makes you do really silly stuff. Like judging your blogging day by numbers on a screen. The only way you succeed online is by generously helping people, trusting in yourself and in the blogging process and opening multiple streams of income. Be this person and you will succeed. But the split-second you begin judging numbers on a screen, you screw up that entire process because generosity becomes stinginess. Bloggers hold back because they fear giving too much away in a universe of abundance. The split-second you hold back, traffic and profits are held back from you. This is why most bloggers never make more than $100 during their online career.
Never judge your blogging day by numbers on a screen. In most cases you will feel like the numbers are not enough, which leads to feeling bad, which leads to failure. In a few cases you will become excited at big numbers then crash at the end of the day. In a few cases you will feel average or mediocre, which is not a good emotion. Stop judging numbers on a screen. Blog your passion, have fun helping people, trust in the process and open multiple streams of income. This is a successful blogging formula.
Be a process focused blogger versus being an outcomes focused blogger. Stop basing your life on numbers on a screen. This is almost a form of insanity when you think about it. You have such unlimited potential to help people and live your dreams but staring at numbers scares you? This makes zero sense. Stop staring at numbers on a screen and judging them, feeling like you are not enough or you are not getting enough. You are enough. You are whole and complete. Follow your passion. Be generous. Help many people for free every day but open multiple income streams through which you receive money. This process is simple but uncomfortable sometimes because it requires facing fears, feeling fears and developing your emotional intelligence. Most people would rather judge their day by numbers on a screen vs. facing deep fears and feeling these fears. I was in that lot for a long time. This was not a pleasant of my blogging career.
But facing fears by owning that I judged numbers on a screen and felt really bad about it most of the time helped me feel these fears and release these fears, creating the generous, abundant blogger you see today. Blogging is easier for me these days because I judge a little and give a lot. I also trust more deeply in the blogging process. I trust in myself too. Everything moved in this direction when I stop judging my blogging day by numbers on a screen.
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