You’ve heard the saying: “It’s not what you know, it’s who you know.”, right? I don’t entirely agree with this. I think it should be both. In the battle for you and your blog to get ahead, you must have something of value to offer as well as people who will acknowledge this in supportive and meaningful ways. In the world of work, especially big business, people in the know are constantly networking with contacts who will broaden their opportunities for advancement and success. This concept also applies to blogging you must network with other bloggers if you want to succeed.
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In my last post, Is Your Blog A Thriving Community?, I discussed the value of building a community out of your blog readers. Today I want to stress the importance of also building a community outside of your audience, one that is based on relationships with other bloggers in a more professional way. One way to accomplish this is to join and participate in networking communities dedicated to bloggers. These sites offer you the opportunity to interact with other bloggrs by participating in forums, messaging, forming and joining groups, contributing articles, exchanging links and advertising, to name but a few.
These networks will afford you the chance to make beneficial connections that can offer you and your blog a number of unique opportunies as outlined below:
The chance to find other bloggers to exchnage guest posts with.
Guest posting allows you the opportunity to reach a wider audience and bring new traffic to your blog. Blogging communities are a great place to find other bloggers in your niche with which to establish a guest posting relationship.
Get fresh ideas and themes for future blog posts of your own.
No I’m not advocating plagarism. But blogging oriented communities give you opportunity to check out the posts of others in your blogging niche and these can be great sources of inspiration. Ask yourself some questions about the content: “What points did the article not spend enough time on? Could the topic have been covered in more detail? Would the article benefit from a list of related resources? Is the article in error or missing some key information?”. Now ask yourself: “How would I approach and improve this topic in my own blog post?” You won’t be stealing the article, only building on and expanding it. This is a way to inspire your own blogging creativity and produce great blog content.
Find other blogs to exchange advertising and links with.
Don’t think about other bloggers as competition. This attitude will short-circuit your ability to connect with and benefit from what others are doing. What is the point of joining a community of like-minded bloggers if you maintain an attitude that is hostile? Think about how you can help others and be helped by them, practice reciprocity. These kinds of exchanges will be of mutual benefit, but only if your choose relevant blogs to exchange advertising and links with. Be descriminating, don’t go for quantity, aim for quality. Exchange links and advertising with blogs that have good contnet that is updated regularly and have a steady readership and be prepared to respond in kind.
Learn tips, tricks and secrets from other more experienced community members.
Other successful bloggers are not your enemy. In fact, you are your own worst enemy if you refuse to learn from the success of others. Pay attention to what successful bloggers in your niche are doing and try implementing some of these techniques on your own blog. Don’t be afraid to approach a more experienced blogger for help and advice. The worst thing they can do is say no, but on the upside, you may gain an invaluable resource in the person of a mentor.
Connect with and leverage your other social networking communities.
Many of these blogging communities offer you the ability to incorporate feeds from your other social networks and in some cases your blog feed as well. This gives you the opportunity to grow your other followings on social sites such as Twitter and Facebook. It also exposes your blog to potential new readers.
Get free tools and applications to enhance your blog’s functionality.
Take advantage of free widgets and applications that help you connect to your new community and make your blog more appealing and interactive. Just be careful to install things that are truly helpful and not just useless toys for your sidebar.
Below I have listed a few sites that you might want to consider joining and participating in.
- Blog Catalog
In addition, you might want to check out the two blog promotion communities below listed below. Between them, they offer you the ability to promote your blog in several ways. Including, but not limited to: link building, article directory publishing, article exchanges, advertising opportunities, forums and more.
Remember that these communities will only benefit you to a level corresponding to the time and energy you invest in them. You will get as good as you give in a blogging network community. If you are willing to invest a little of yourself, they can be great sources of information and support for you as a blogger. Blogging communities can definately contribute to the overall success of your blog.
Do You Need to Respond to ALL Comments?
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One mistake holds back many bloggers who fail to scale. These folks obsess over responding to every single comment, every email, every message. Why? Pride. Obsession. Attachment to people. Fear of missing out on an opportunity. Fear of missing out on friendships.
Unfortunately, if you spend 14 hours daily responding to every single social request and chat and email and blog comment and message – even if it feels fun – you lose opportunities to scale through blog posts, guest posts, podcasts and doing interviews.
Please; if responding to virtually everything feels fun, do it. But 99% of bloggers BS themselves on this because they respond to EVERYONE from an energy of fear, pain, lack, resistance, force and hustle. Bad idea guys. Force negates. But, power attracts. Meaning if you are willing to use power, and love, and fun, to inject into your work, you quickly see: the cornerstone of massive scaling and persistent growth and freeing blogging success is writing, publishing and placing blog posts and guest posts.
Today, how do I have most fun growing my business, reaching more people, helping more people, and leveraging my blogging presence? Do I achieve these feats by spending 3 hours responding individually to every retweet, Like, blog comment, and so on, and so on? Nope. I spend those 3 hours effectively and efficiently by writing and publishing 3-6 blog posts and guest posts. Blog posts and guest posts scale. Blog posts and guest posts help me reach hundreds to thousands of targeted folks through each blog post and guest post.
Blog posts and guest posts never seem to be written by people who complain about having no time to blog post, and, guest post. Meanwhile, a hefty chunk of these humans spend 1, 2 or 3 hours responding to every Like on Facebook, from a strained, forced energy, fearing they miss out on traffic and bonds, not having fun doing it. But the wise move would be spending 10 minutes responding to comments on Facebook and maybe a few Likes, then, devoting 2-3 hours to writing and publishing blog posts and guest posts.
Think Scale Not Small Time
WAY too many bloggers play small, giving most of their attention and energy to building 1 to 1 bonds. Making friends is important but meeting new friends is even more important.
One lesson I learned from millionaire bloggers: scaling through blog posts and guest posts is the quickest way to reach more people, make more money and increase your blog traffic. Building 1 to 1 bonds by engaging commentors plays a role in succeeding online, but the top bloggers on earth are not running around, spending endless hours responding to Likes on Facebook.
Titans also build one to one bonds through engagement, but if you are not getting 1000 page views a day, something is wrong in the scaling department. Namely, you are playing it small, not thinking about scaling. Scale. Guest post. Post to your blog. Make this the focus of your day. Then, feel free to engage folks 1 to 1 in a limited time frame.
You need to let go responding to every single person all day long to genuinely scale, to reach an increasing number of folks and to do what matters most to your business.
People will buy your stuff without you engaging them. Guaranteed. Folks will find your blog, love your content and buy your course or eBooks. This is a simple, organic process that you muck up every time you believe you need to respond to and engage every single person who reaches out via all online channels.
Should You Aim for Blog Post Quality or Quantity?
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The human mind is silly. It thinks one or the other. It thinks you cannot have it all. You can have blog post quality and quantity but you need to make a clear decision on what you define to be a quality blog post.
Quality posts do not mean 2000 to 4000 word, pillar style masterpieces. A quality blog post answers the question you asked via title or delivers on the promise you made on the title.
I do understand how Google ranks 2000 word or longer, SEO-optimized posts requiring hours of work for even skilled bloggers to write, package and publish. But Google also ranks 600 words posts. 600 word posts are quality posts. Guess what? For the 30,000 bloggers out there asking the title question, I just wrote a quality blog post because they get a clear, concise, dead on answer.
Avoid Scarcity Thinking
Any time you FEAR posts are not quality because word length is 600 words, you think scarcity, or, not enough, or, not quality. But fear is not true. Fear is illusion. I can write 10, 600 word, quality posts today to make a massive impact and to help people IF I think abundance. But if I only believe I write quality, helpful posts in the 2000 word range, I stopped thinking abundance and began thinking scarcity. I chose fear over love and abundance. Naturally, all bloggers who think scarcity either struggle, fail and quit or work like beasts just to make end’s meet. Not good.
Go for quantity and quality. Some posts may span 800 or 1000 words but you can answer most questions and solve most problems in 600 words if you have immense clarity. Seth Godin answers most questions in 100 to 300 words. You have so much more to work with. So…work with it!
Think abundance. Blog abundance.
I have referenced Gary Vee many times recently and his 2000 video interviews on YouTube. Before he landed world famous speaking gig he had a pure abundance mindset, doing videos left and right, offering quality insights on a high quantity of channels. Blogging fools would try desperately to land an interview on a TV show, pitching, fearing, worrying, striving, and wasting months of time, thinking scarcity. Gary thought abundance, seized every opportunity through interview requests from some entrepreneurs who registered zero views per video, gained massive exposure organically, and, the dude became famous through his abundance mindset.
He thought quality and quantity. He did not hold back.
I am beginning to gain massive exposure through the 5-10 guest posts and blog posts published under my name daily. I do not turn down a microphone. I also know the easiest way to become well known is to focus heavily on quantity and quality, to share the wealth.
Many bloggers would obsess over a quality post being 2000 words, SEO-optimized and all that jazz, spending 4 hours to write said post on blogging tips. Meanwhile, I just wrote and published 8 quality, 600 word posts during those hours. I am being seen helping people in 8 spots. While you are on the sidelines. Even if that SEO’ed out, 2000 word post gains massive traffic over the long term, via Google, I am gaining even more massive traffic, being in 8-10 places daily via my posts and guest posts.
Think exponential increase. Imagine my 10 guest posts building up over 365 days. That is 3,650 guest posts, 3,650 spots where I am spotted online. That is a lotta spots!
See why it pays to think quality and quantity?
How to Leave Your Blogging Struggles Behind
Exit your comfort zone on a daily basis.
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Leave blogging struggles behind.
I love blogging. Blogging feels fun, freeing and quite easy to me. But sometimes, on this journey, my feelings change a bit. Sometimes, blogging feels uncomfortable and I nudge into resistance. Fear rears its head. Mental blocks arise. Sometimes I fear running out of time or perhaps I fear wasting my time. In these moments, I have 2 choices: remain in my fear-filled comfort zone or leave my comfort zone.
I left most of my blogging struggles behind because I choose to leave my comfort zone on a regular basis. Traffic, profits, and all manner of sweet blogging success greet bloggers who feel their fears, leave their comfort zones and do the blogging task, anyway.
What Is Blogging Struggle?
Blogging struggle is doing things or not doing things based on fear. Fear drives you. You blog from a fear-based, scared energy. You avoid traffic and profit and success boosting activities because you fear the opportunities. Example; you struggle horribly to make money and drive blog traffic. I advise to begin generous, relaxed, enjoyable guest posting, to help you increase traffic and profits and success. The split second you THINK about guest posting, you feel a range of emotions, from excitement, to happiness, then, from terror, to anxiety, to a general fear of wasting your time.
If 2 people visit your blog daily and you see zero blogging profits now, and you say “no” to guest posting because of some fears, you will likely struggle horribly, because you avoided guest posting to stay in your comfort zone of fear.
Traffic and profits sit on the other side of fear, outside of your comfort zone. No way around that one. We all pay a fear tuition doing freeing, success-promoting, uncomfortable things. I remember when Zac invited me to guest post on Blogging Tips. Fear invaded my mind. Would he reject my posts? How about if he hated my posts? What if I wasted my time? Would I be able to follow all the rules? Would he criticize me? Of course Zac is the nicest, kindest, friendliest iconic blogger on earth. He REALLY is, guys. He is an exceptional human being. But fear is irrational, distorting the truths of love, harmony and abundance.
I had to feel all those scary, intense fears, and keep blogging anyway, to write and publish my first few guest posts here. 800 plus guest posts later, I am still going strong. Why? I left my comfort zone those first few times and instantly began leaving blogging struggles behind.
Exit your comfort zone every single day. Do something that scares you. Do something that tests your limits. Publish a 4 paragraph long comment on a top blog, even if you fear:
- nobody is listening
- nobody is reading comments
- nobody will click through to your blog
- you are wasting your time
- the comment won’t get published
This happened to me recently. I spent 15 minutes writing a 9 paragraph comment on Pro Blogger. But Disqus suffered some connection problems and prevented me from publishing the comment. I feared I wasted 15 minutes. But after feeling and releasing the emotion, I let it go, moved on, and devoted 10 minutes to writing and publishing the comment later in the day, when Disqus was working.
Struggles happen if you choose to blog mainly from fear.
Success happens when you nudge into these fears, toward your blogging fun, taking inspired but uncomfortable action on a daily basis.
Go for it!
Exit your comfort zone.
Leave your blogging struggles behind…for good.
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