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How to Guard Your Blogging Reputation



Grammar buffs routinely wretch at my “seat of the pants” writing style.

Blogging purists scoff at my “write for fun” approach to blogging.

I am about as orthodox as a Steph Curry, 30 footer, off balance, twisting jump shot but I know how to maintain my reputation.

Many of my beaten down blogging buddies cannot say the same.

Beaten Down Bloggers

I had to write this post. Because recently I’ve spotted a growing army of battered, beaten bloggers. Held hostage by their unhealthy obsession with maintaining a solid online rep.

If you’re terrified to lose your blogging rep or if you are trembling at the thought of receiving a 1 star review on Amazon or if you feel tortured by a negative, biting, scathing comment, you’re beleagured. Butchered by your belittling little mind, you can’t possibly succeed online if hamstrung by the anchor of obsessing over your rep.

Bloggers who worry incessantly about how people perceive them lack the energy, passion and fun quotient that the superstars emanate.

Guard your reputation. Like a Balinese Rottweiler guards home base.

Guard your reputation. Like a Balinese Rottweiler guards home base. By aligning with your values.

Example: your’s truly. I blog for fun. I blog with passion. I blog with ample energy. At least I think so.

I could not possibly blog from a care-free, free-wheeling, fun space if I became insanely infatuated with my reputation.

Why don’t I care much about what people think, say or do in response to me being me? I act in line with what I value. So critics don’t upset me. And my fan base grows and spreads the word more fervently because they value what I value.

1: Act in Line with Your Values

I value having fun. I value blogging. I value traveling. So all day long, through my blog and social media accounts, I have fun inspiring folks to retire to a life of island hopping through smart blogging. I deviate not from that fun. Because I value having fun.

I will never lose my blogging reputation if I act in line with these values. If however, I stepped outside of this value channel, I tread into murky waters. My fans will question me. My readers will wonder why I’m doing what I’m doing. I may damage my rep a bit.

Act in line with your values. What is your predominant blogging intent? Are you blogging for fun? To free yourself? What niche do you cover? Act in alignment with your values. Be genuine. Be authentic. Be honest. Be real. If you stay aligned with your values you will maintain your rep with ease.

2: Don’t Convince or Convert Critics

Trying to convince an unclear, unhappy critic in an effort to maintain your blogging rep is like trying to convince a monitor lizard to go on a vegetarian diet.

Ain’t gonna happen.

I have observed monitor lizards in tropical locales like Bali and Thailand. All meat. All the time. If they’re eating green it’s a frog or lizard carcasse.

Attempting to convert a critic into a fan to keep your rep is similar to trying to sprint uphill while towing a Sherman tank with your teeth. Waste of energy.

Stop trying to convince unhappy, unclear, secretly admiring people. Appeal to your fan base.

Check out Adrienne Smith’s blog: Adrienne Smith Dot Net

She focuses all of her energy on her fans and friends. Naturally, these fans and friends promote her aggressively, bolstering her online reputation.

Your loyal readers fan flames under your brand. If you give ’em your energy.

Ignore critics. Love your fans. Appreciate your friends. Brand advocates will trumpet your blogging message to the mountain tops. Email your readers with gratitude. Promote your readers. Comment on your blogging buddies’ blogs. Happy, loyal, appreciative friends are the cornerstone of a wildly successful blog and brand.

3: Don’t *Worry* about Your Blogging Reputation

Jedi mind trick, in effect.

I formerly fretted like a freak over negative comments on my blog. I fought critics. I worried like mad about getting 1 star reviews on my Amazon eBooks. If anybody said anything nasty about me I felt like said critic took a pin to the balloon that was me. 1 little pin prick; balloon pops, I became deflated.

A few years later I became even more worried about maintaining my blogging rep. I had a bigger name. I was more well known. This time, I swelled up to the size of a blimp. Full of hot air. When someone came along and appeared to sully my blogging rep with a critical comment or review it was like the critic popped the blimp with a railroad spike. I was devastated. Hindenburg-type disaster.

Finally, I went all Jedi with it. I did not worry about the very thing I wished to guard: my reputation. I knew that using a low energy motivator would bring me a low energy outcome, rep-wise. So I took care of what I could take care of – namely, me – and released the critics, and any sick obsession with manipulating circumstances to craft a sterling reputation. I had faith that the right people would support me. I also had faith that critics wouldn’t hurt my rep because their negative energy was all about them and had nothing to do with me.

Don’t worry about your online rep. Because worrying is a negative energy. Centering your blogging reputation on a foundation of worry is like building a 20 room mansion on a bed of sand. Because every negative review and snarky comment will eat you alive. The end result: your blog and brand will become….bland. No flavor. You can’t be your authentic self if you worry what people think of that self.

Follow tip #1. Follow tip #2. Acting in line with your values and devoting all of your energies to your rabid fans will dissolve your fear of criticism. Eroding that fear slays your blogging reputation-related worries.

What tips can you add to this list?

How do you maintain your blogging reputation?

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How Most People Think Blogging Is and How it REALLY Is



I love my gig. Right now, I blog from beautiful NYC. Quick 9 day trip to Manhattan. Can you imagine how fun and freeing this life is? Circling the globe, seeing places like Fiji, Bali and Thailand, experiencing these spots for years at a time? Amazing journey indeed. I feel appreciative of this fun, freeing life. I also know how most people think my life goes; write a few words, tap a publish button, make money, soar off to Fiji for 4 months. Most human beings cling to a terribly flawed aspect of their personality; ego. Ego sees free people and assumes, to preserve itself, how freedom must be an easy, comfortable journey for other people to take, because ego KNOWS freedom has not been an easy, comfortable objective, for ego.

Most human beings vibe from a dominant energy of fear so most human beings see illusions, appearances, NOT reality, a magic trick, something not REALLY happening. Most humans see me living in Thailand for months and see the illusion of me spending 2 hours to publish a post, seeing me making money, then, flying to Thailand. What fear-filled folks cannot see is the truth of this: me blogging for 5,000 hours – or more – through ups and downs, highs and lows, love and fear, peace and terror, and an even wider range of emotions….to live a life of blogging in Thailand for months at a time. The truth, the reality, of how blogging really is: blog for thousands of hours, make little or no money, then, after blogging for thousands of hours from a generous, calm, trusting, abundant vibe, feeling deep fears here and there along the way, the money flows in freely and you get to circle the globe whenever you want to circle the globe.

Take a look at this picture of me in Lyttelton, New Zealand:

Most people see an illusion: “Ryan is SO lucky! He gets to spend 2 months in New Zealand! I wish I had his life!”

The few human beings on earth who see the truth see this: “That guy lives an amazing life, being in New Zealand for 2 months, because he blogged for 10,000 hours, often times, when things did not appear to be coming together, outlook, appearing bleak.”

Truth seers are rare birds, folks. Why do you think I spend 3 or more hours daily meditating, doing yoga and exercising? I stabilize my vibe, uncover and purge illusory-producing fears and see the truth, more often than not. You need to see the truth to taste freeing, sweet blogging success. Can you taste my life? Imagine how it’d feel to live in NYC for a week? Imagine how it’d feel to live in Bali for 6 months? Fun, eh? Freeing, right? Of course you’d feel free, circling the globe, changing time zones like people change their minds. But to live this fun, freeing life, you have to live the truth of blogging for hundreds to thousands of generous, trusting hours, before you live the life, and, before you experience this level of fun and freedom. Most humans mean well but totally get caught up in the illusion, not seeing the truth because they fill their minds with fears, creating the insanity of luck and the delusion of envy, and the crazy, mentally ill, concept that you can live an amazingly fun, freeing life with a few hours, a few weeks or a few months of lazy blogging effort.

Do you want to step up to the blogging big time? Step away from most people. See the truth. This blogging gig takes serious effort and serious time. Most people live in delusion, in an illusion of fear. You know better. You know how blogging REALLY is. Sure blogging feels scary in moments but the ride feels largely fun and freeing when you follow your fun, generously help people and trust in yourself, and, trust in the blogging process. I know you’re up it!


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Face Newbie Blogger Fears Early to Accelerate Your Success



Do you genuinely want to hit the ground running with your blog? Face newbie blogger fears early. Do not mess around. Do not play around. Never be anchored down by doubt. Face fears, feel fears and you will feel so good, and free, and ready to succeed through your new blog because fear cannot hold you back if you face it, feel it, release it and proceed.

Life as a solopreneur feels fun, freeing and highly challenging because you do not possess the resources of more established entrepreneurs or people working for a company. The #1 tool in your new blogger arsenal is a willingness to face, feel and release deep fears related to being a newbie. Do this; be golden. Fun, freedom and expansive success awaits you because your generosity, creativity and willingness to connect just accelerates your blogging success…yes…even as a new blogger. How cool, right? No new blogger needs to struggle, fail and quit before giving themselves a chance, because fear is the only thing standing between you and what you need to do, to succeed. For example, I routinely tell new bloggers to buy courses or eBooks for due diligence material. More importantly, I tell them NOT to rely solely on questions and answers through Quora for their due diligence campaign because free platforms pale in comparison to trusted, premium resources from the top bloggers, in terms of research materials.

What can you do to accelerate your new blogger success fast? Nudge into the fear of spending money on training resources, feel the fear, release the fear and buy the course and/or eBook. Doing this, you begin taking the course and/or reading the eBook, putting your new knowledge into action, succeeding more quickly. Meanwhile, most new bloggers who refuse to face their fears keep asking questions on Quora, relying on strangers, possibly skilled but usually unskilled bloggers to supply them with non-vetted answers for critical blogging research. How in the heck can you rely on this most crucial of information if you have no idea who offers the answers? Can you see why this method is totally unreliable, for getting your blogging research? A few skilled bloggers offer some keen insight but step out of the fear-vibe into the abundant, successful vibe by investing money in a top blogging education.

If you can either pay for a Harvard education or ask some stranger on the street for their free advice, what seems to be the more intelligent decision? Invest money in expert advice? Or save money to get advice from some stranger on the street who may or may not know what they are talking about? Can you see why so many new bloggers struggle, fearing to invest money in the best blogging advice, choosing to get free, unreliable blogging advice from the general blogging public?

Pay up to play up. Invest money in your blogging education to move higher in blogging circles. Be a fear-diver; keep nudging into fears to better understand how to succeed, feeling and releasing these confining, restricting forms of bondage. Face newbie blogger fears early and often to remove the shackles that hold you down. Doesn’t it feel better to dive into fears routinely so you can accelerate your blogging success, even as a newbie?

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How to Promote Yourself without Bragging and Repelling Readers



You do know promoting yourself freely constitutes one pillar of blogging success, right guys? Bloggers need to be clear, confident and relaxed enough with self to appeal to us. Who wants to follow someone with low self-esteem? We seek out bright lights, not bloggers slumming around in the blogging sewer, eh? But self-promoting is a fine art for the discerning blogger to master; go too far, bragging your butt off, and your arrogance repels readers. People despise someone who speaks about self all day long because these over-compensating buffoons, deep-down, fear they are not enough. Bad trait in a leader. I figured it’d be easiest to self promote by simply…..self promoting like the dickens.

Example; buy our new course. Yep, Sue-Ann and I plan to make you happy as a blogging pig in slop with our new course. Do you see how I got right to the point? No beating around the bush. I promoted me, and, Sue-Ann, clearly explaining why you need to buy our blogging course….by saying….buy it, and you will be a happy blogger. Promoting yourself through virtually all content you create is the easiest, simplest way to find the happy medium between being a shy guy or shy gal and being an arrogant, boastful, bragging clown. The real secret is to keep promoting self through all the self-conscious, anxious, money-related, appearance-related fears most of us cling to, before we become clear, confident self-promoters.

Put Attention on Your Readers

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Let us rewind for a moment, shall we? Time to review how I promoted myself by putting attention on you, you rocking readers of Blogging Tips Dot Com. I promoted self because I promoted my eBook. I make money every time you buy the eBook. Cool. Feels good to me. But did you notice I asked if YOU felt disgusted, and if YOU wanted to drink up sweet blogging freedom, before I promoted ME? This is one secret to promoting your products and services without looking like a dingbat. I helped you by putting the attention on you, making my self-promotion about you and me. We both win. You access a freeing, fun, valued resources and I access an energy we call “money”. Fair exchange, methinks. I never come off as bragging, being boastful or outright being a cocky jerk because I make it about US. See how thinking about everybody, and bringing folks together, benefits everyone? Cultivate your sense of compassion guys; developing this skill helps you go far in blogging, and, in life.

Be Subtle in Sharing Your Accomplishments

Feel free to share your accomplishments if you feel doing so boosts your credibility. But never be a flat out braggart by speaking about yourself in boastful, self-centered, self-serving tones. Why? Doing so turns off folks because braggarts secretly do NOT believe in themselves, and need that facade of boastfulness to even dream of trying to succeed online. Every braggart is broken. Point blank. Even if you achieved immense worldly success and appear to be happy, the appearance is an illusion, as you do not believe in yourself, and people who do not believe in themselves cannot succeed in leading others. Be subtle in sharing your wins. Be delicate in sharing your feats. Humble yourself. Allow other folks to do the bragging so you promote yourself from a relaxed, chill, attractive energy.


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