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My Filthy Little Secret to Blogging Success



I publish 1 eBook weekly.

I publish one 6,000 word blog post weekly.

I publish a new, fresh, podcast weekly.

I run multiple online businesses.

….I blog from paradise.

Blogging’s filthy little secret isn’t so filthy to free, prolific, full time income earning bloggers, but it’s down and dirty, and elusive, to struggling bloggers. It is a secret to most folks because they don’t want you to know that
this blogging deal does ya dirty sometimes. Sometimes, you’ll fall flat on your face, and sometimes, you’ll pull a mental muscle, because you’re doing this, but you’ll also live your dreams by uncovering this secret.

Here it is, this little nasty secret:

All of your blogging growth AND success lies in stretching.

I know you may be having a helluva time growing. And succeeding. Goodness knows I’ve been there. But I also figured out how to free me, and how to free you.


What are a few examples of blogging stretching? What practical blogging tips can you follow to grow and to succeed and to free yourself?

Write 200 Extra Words Today

For your blog post. For your eBook. Write 200 extra words. Observe how quickly your limiting beliefs pop up. Watch how quickly you make excuses, or, how swiftly you just blame the idea known as Writer’s Block…..or…….you can do the
most freeing, spectacular, inspired thing on earth: sit, wait, embrace the mental suffering, and write the extra 200 words.

This may sound miraculous but following the extra 200 word habit inspired me to blog from Fiji for 4 months. I started at 200 words daily. I added a few hundred words daily, each week. Today, I write between 6,000 and 10,000 words daily.
Because I started at 200, and kept to it no matter what. I stretched. That stretching led to the writing habit which boosted my blogging income and which allowed me to live in Savusavu, Fiji, for 4 months, through my blogging proceeds.

Write Your First eBook

I’ve spotted so many inspired bloggers who’re taking the plunge into writing eBooks. Do it!


Right now, as I type away at my keyboard like a mad man, I am soaking up a stunning view of paradise. Crisp blue skies meet my eyes in Jimbaran, Bali. I’ve had some insane experiences too: meeting Bali boobies (one local farmer women
goes topless, as the older Balinese women do in the ‘hood), encountering spitting cobras, dealing with a monstrously large but affectionate chicken-killing Rottweiler and yes, experiencing the pain and suffering of paying $2.45 for a
massive portion of Balinese food, all healthy and delicious, from a local Balinese warung.

I live this life because I stretched.

Point blank.

Each extra word, each new venture, each blogging video I shot, when I felt awkward, and hated how I sounded, and looked, led to me being a natural in front of the camera. I nail interviews. Everything is EASY when the lights come on, for
me, because I stretched. Ditto on the writing side of things.

I polished my skills. I earned the trust of my audience. I grew. I developed my talents. I blog from paradise. Because I stretched myself to free me and to free you.

Writing my first eBook was the catalyst to boost my blogging energy and clarity. Sure I increased my blogging income but the real treasure, the real benefit, in so doing was forming the writing habit that led to me being a prolific SOB.


I publish 1 eBook on Amazon weekly. I also publish a 6,000 word weekly blog post. I am no Sherlock Holmes of Hoi An, Vietnam, nor am I a Hard Boiled Detective in Delhi, India, and I am no Private Eye in Penang, Malaysia (yes, I’ve
visited each city….loved ’em!) but I have a sneaking suspicion that pushing myself a bit more, and stretching, to write 1 eBook weekly, inspired me to write like some folks breathe. I also inspired my audience, all those fellow and
aspiring island hoppers, to blast through their limits.

Start Your Podcast

How to Retire to a Life of Island Hopping Episode 1 is live! I will chat from paradise solo, some weeks, and I’ll also interview blogging bosses on my podcast. The goal: to have a freaking blast, to show off my hammy (babi guling, look
that up in Bahasa Indonesia, Terima Kasih) side and to inspire you to break the chains of the 9-5 if you want to live a freeing, happy, island hopping life.

Publishing a podcast took some stretching. I admit it; this is a bit of a challenge, considering that I am publishing the eBook weekly, the 6,000 word post weekly, running my freelance writing business and my blog coaching business, and
factor in my aggressive blog commenting campaign, and yep, I do the type of stuff one may do in paradise, and you get the hint that this is a freeing but uncomfortable add to my already stacked list.

But I stretch. To grow. To succeed.

I am inspired by guys like Zac. He’s a fellow NJ guy who’s blasted through resistance to become a blogging boss, an internet icon, and although I spend little time in Jersey these days I still claim the place as home, and see some
similarities in our stories.

Guys, if you do 1 thing today, subscribe to Zac’s blog here at Blogging Tips. He’s a tremendous leader, a nice guy and he does as good a job as anybody at uncovering that filthy little secret that will accelerate your blogging success:
you need to stretch!

Your Turn

Get excited about stretching. Freedom awaits you. Each uncomfortable decision is a building block toward living a dream life.

How are you stretching as a blogger today?

What little bit extra can you do to accelerate your success?

Please share your thoughts in the comments section below.

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Ryan Biddulph is the owner of Blogging From Paradise. He's a blogger, author and world traveler who's been featured on Richard Branson's Virgin Blog, Forbes, Fox News, Entrepreneur Dot Com and Neil Patel Dot Com. Ryan can help you become a full time blogger with his course.

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Should You Aim for Blog Post Quality or Quantity?




The human mind is silly. It thinks one or the other. It thinks you cannot have it all. You can have blog post quality and quantity but you need to make a clear decision on what you define to be a quality blog post.

Quality posts do not mean 2000 to 4000 word, pillar style masterpieces. A quality blog post answers the question you asked via title or delivers on the promise you made on the title.

I do understand how Google ranks 2000 word or longer, SEO-optimized posts requiring hours of work for even skilled bloggers to write, package and publish. But Google also ranks 600 words posts. 600 word posts are quality posts. Guess what? For the 30,000 bloggers out there asking the title question, I just wrote a quality blog post because they get a clear, concise, dead on answer.

Avoid Scarcity Thinking

Any time you FEAR posts are not quality because word length is 600 words, you think scarcity, or, not enough, or, not quality. But fear is not true. Fear is illusion. I can write 10, 600 word, quality posts today to make a massive impact and to help people IF I think abundance. But if I only believe I write quality, helpful posts in the 2000 word range, I stopped thinking abundance and began thinking scarcity.  I chose fear over love and abundance. Naturally, all bloggers who think scarcity either struggle, fail and quit or work like beasts just to make end’s meet. Not good.

Go for quantity and quality. Some posts may span 800 or 1000 words but you can answer most questions and solve most problems in 600 words if you have immense clarity. Seth Godin answers most questions in 100 to 300 words. You have so much more to work with. So…work with it!

Think abundance. Blog abundance.

Massive Exposure

I have referenced Gary Vee many times recently and his 2000 video interviews on YouTube. Before he landed world famous speaking gig he had a pure abundance mindset, doing videos left and right, offering quality insights on a high quantity of channels. Blogging fools would try desperately to land an interview on a TV show, pitching, fearing, worrying, striving, and wasting months of time, thinking scarcity. Gary thought abundance, seized every opportunity through interview requests from some entrepreneurs who registered zero views per video, gained massive exposure organically, and, the dude became famous through his abundance mindset.

He thought quality and quantity. He did not hold back.

I am beginning to gain massive exposure through the 5-10 guest posts and blog posts published under my name daily. I do not turn down a microphone. I also know the easiest way to become well known is to focus heavily on quantity and quality, to share the wealth.

Many bloggers would obsess over a quality post being 2000 words, SEO-optimized and all that jazz, spending 4 hours to write said post on blogging tips. Meanwhile, I just wrote and published 8 quality, 600 word posts during those hours. I am being seen helping people in 8 spots. While you are on the sidelines. Even if that SEO’ed out, 2000 word post gains massive traffic over the long term, via Google, I am gaining even more massive traffic, being in 8-10 places daily via my posts and guest posts.

Think exponential increase. Imagine my 10 guest posts building up over 365 days. That is 3,650 guest posts, 3,650 spots where I am spotted online. That is a lotta spots!

See why it pays to think quality and quantity?



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How to Leave Your Blogging Struggles Behind



Exit your comfort zone on a daily basis.

Leave blogging struggles behind.

I love blogging. Blogging feels fun, freeing and quite easy to me. But sometimes, on this journey, my feelings change a bit. Sometimes, blogging feels uncomfortable and I nudge into resistance. Fear rears its head. Mental blocks arise. Sometimes I fear running out of time or perhaps I fear wasting my time. In these moments, I have 2 choices: remain in my fear-filled comfort zone or leave my comfort zone.

I left most of my blogging struggles behind because I choose to leave my comfort zone on a regular basis. Traffic, profits, and all manner of sweet blogging success greet bloggers who feel their fears, leave their comfort zones and do the blogging task, anyway.

What Is Blogging Struggle?

Blogging struggle is doing things or not doing things based on fear. Fear drives you. You blog from a fear-based, scared energy. You avoid traffic and profit and success boosting activities because you fear the opportunities. Example; you struggle horribly to make money and drive blog traffic. I advise to begin generous, relaxed, enjoyable guest posting, to help you increase traffic and profits and success. The split second you THINK about guest posting, you feel a range of emotions, from excitement, to happiness, then, from terror, to anxiety, to a general fear of wasting your time.

If 2 people visit your blog daily and you see zero blogging profits now, and you say “no” to guest posting because of some fears, you will likely struggle horribly, because you avoided guest posting to stay in your comfort zone of fear.

Traffic and profits sit on the other side of fear, outside of your comfort zone. No way around that one. We all pay a fear tuition doing freeing, success-promoting, uncomfortable things. I remember when Zac invited me to guest post on Blogging Tips. Fear invaded my mind. Would he reject my posts? How about if he hated my posts? What if I wasted my time? Would I be able to follow all the rules? Would he criticize me? Of course Zac is the nicest, kindest, friendliest iconic blogger on earth. He REALLY is, guys. He is an exceptional human being. But fear is irrational, distorting the truths of love, harmony and abundance.

I had to feel all those scary, intense fears, and keep blogging anyway, to write and publish my first few guest posts here. 800 plus guest posts later, I am still going strong. Why? I left my comfort zone those first few times and instantly began leaving blogging struggles behind.

Exit your comfort zone every single day. Do something that scares you. Do something that tests your limits. Publish a 4 paragraph long comment on a top blog, even if you fear:

  • nobody is listening
  • nobody is reading comments
  • nobody will click through to your blog
  • you are wasting your time
  • the comment won’t get published

This happened to me recently. I spent 15 minutes writing a 9 paragraph comment on Pro Blogger. But Disqus suffered some connection problems and prevented me from publishing the comment. I feared I wasted 15 minutes. But after feeling and releasing the emotion, I let it go, moved on, and devoted 10 minutes to writing and publishing the comment later in the day, when Disqus was working.

Struggles happen if you choose to blog mainly from fear.

Success happens when you nudge into these fears, toward your blogging fun, taking inspired but uncomfortable action on a daily basis.

Go for it!

Exit your comfort zone.

Leave your blogging struggles behind…for good.

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Focus on Things More to Leverage Your Blog Quickly




What is the relationships guy talking about?

Blogging is a people business, right?

Blogging is one part people and one part things. Seriously. I learned this recently because if you depend 100% on people to build your blogging success you cannot possibly scale to massive levels. But if you do focus on things more, like email lists, and blogging platforms, you become less dependent on people, and also, your leveraging potential goes through the roof.

Email List Example

Let’s look at the famous email list. It is a thing. After you publish a blog post, you write a few words, include a link to your latest post, and after clicking a button, email the post to 10, 100, or 10,000 people….or more people. In a split second, you reach 10,000 human beings. Using a thing helps you leverage your presence like mad. Awesome.

But imagine if you only reached 10,000 people by mentioning people in your recent post, and tagging them on social media. Humanly impossible, of course. Let’s say you depend on even, 50 people, to promote your blog post, by mentioning them and tagging them. Linking to and tagging 50 bloggers takes a lotta time. Minimum, even for a 700 word post, it takes 90 minutes to 2 hours – or longer – to go the tagging and mentioning route. Do you see the problem of depending 100% on people and friendships to build blog? You run out of time. Meanwhile, sending your post to 50 email subscribers takes 3 minutes to send the email and literally, a split second to actually publish the email, at the click of a button.

Using Things Effectively Leverages Your Presence

Using email lists, blogging platforms for guest posting and certain tools leverages your presence fast because eventually, you run out of time trying to leverage your presence solely based on grabbing the attention of fellow bloggers. Plus you are at the mercy of humans, and building a fear-based attachment to fellow humans leads to misery because humans change, humans get too busy to promote you, and humans unfriend other humans.

I am for making blogging a people and things business. I have learned this lesson the hard way over the prior 2 months. Befriend people and enjoy the process, but if you want to leverage massively and sprint up the exposure ladder, tap into the convenience of technology by using things to reach more people fast.

At the end of the day, it is about helping more people freely. Use things – aka technology aka inanimate objects – to help people more freely and to help more people, too.

Exit Human-Obsessed and Things-Resistant Blogging Circles

I used to be part of blogging circles 100% reliant – virtually – on human beings, and heavily resistant to things. But none of these bloggers leveraged to big time, super successful levels. These bloggers railed against bots and joked of not using or being a blogging cyborg. All seemed funny. But on agreeing and following their advice I soon learned how incredibly difficult it becomes to grow a successful blog being 100% attached to and dependent on human beings to build the blog. Humans change. Things do not. Plus you cannot leverage humans like you leverage things.

While all these folks complained about emails and automating, they played so small that reaching next level success proved to be 100% impossible. But, I observed how using things like systems and tools will help you reach huge, targeted groups of people in minutes or even seconds. See the email example above.

Instead of complaining about or resisting tech, why not use things to make life easier, to leverage your presence quickly and to reach a huge, targeted group of human beings so you succeed and so people get what they want?

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