Some scared people email me once, twice, 4 times or even 6 times, after I choose not to reply to their emails. By the 3rd email, I usually mark it as spam because obviously, the individual is so filled with deep fear and a heavy attachment to me that they cannot see; they are badgering, pestering and annoying me. Would YOU like someone emailing you 7 times after you did not respond to all 7 prior emails? I owe nobody. I owe nothing. Nobody belongs to me, and I belong to nobody, as one of my favorite Kriya yoga masters said. Knowing this, never give in to blogging fear. Never give 1 second of attention and energy to people who fearfully, desperately email you 3, 4 or 7 times, after you did not reply to any one request. Why? Where your attention and energy goes, grows. Give your attention and energy to fear, and fear grows in your life.
For example, if I do not respond to someone who emails me 6 times – and if I choose not to spam their emails for disrespecting my time – I starve them of fear (eventually) and starve myself of fear, so I blog from an abundant, calm, relaxed energy. Cool. But if I respond to them after the 7th email to let them know I read the email, I give my energy to fear-attachment, and every second I spend explaining, replying and justifying, is giving energy to fear, which expands fear in my life. People just bring fear and scarcity and poverty to you, proof being their FEAR that you have not read their email. You NEED to read their email, they fear. Otherwise, some bad outcome happens for you and them. But this is not true. Fear is illusion. Love is real. We have answers to everything. The only way to move higher in blogging circles is to blog from energies of love, abundance and harmony, and to NOT blog from fear, scarcity and poverty.
How did I become successful? I starved fear, gave my energy to love and helped people, even as fear arose in me and made me uncomfortable. Sometimes, I instantly cut off old friends who became slaves to fear, anger and suffering. I labelled 2 or 3 or 4 reply emails – after the bloggers did not get my hint, through me not replying – as spam, making the emails disappear forever.
If I email someone once and they do not reply, I move on to the next human being. We only have 7 billion human beings on planet earth, to work with. I not only get the hint, I never take it personally; just life, and preference and all that jazz. I only make exceptions for business transactions where I agreed to render service for money. Even then, I never threaten clients who did not pay or who make slow payments, because for every person struggling financially, I always pick up money through other channels, when I release these folks by kindly checking up on them and their life, weekly or monthly. Never make decisions from fear. Even if it scares you, deciding from fear pulls you down the energetic scale into energies of poverty, loss, problems, struggle and failure.
See above fear. Do not give in to fear. Feel it, hug it and release it. Blog from love and abundance.
Do not give in to fear.
About the Author
Ryan Biddulph inspires with his courses, blog and 100 plus eBooks at Blogging From Paradise.