My harshest blogging wake up call occurred nearly a decade ago.
I would write and publish one post weekly. I spent 1 hour writing and publishing the post.
I spent the rest of the week:
- watching TV
- watching YouTube
- working out
- hanging out with friends
After a good year of following this routine I saw a few visitors to my blog daily. I recall 3 daily visitors for many months, stumbled upon my blog.
I experienced a big time blogging wake up call; you cannot build a successful blog by listening to music and watching TV all day long, minus the 1-2 hours you spend blogging, weekly.
The harshest wake up call: blogging gives you what you give blogging.
Blogging Gives You What You Give Blogging
I know of a few bloggers who complain about having terrible business prospects. When will they get more clients? When will they get more traffic? When will they make more money? I mean, they have been blogging for 5 to 10 years already. Things should be growing SO much more quickly right now, they say.
These individuals will get more clients when they stop watching Netflix all day. Do you want to be a professional Netflix watcher or a professional blogger? Pro Netflix watchers spend hours daily watching Netflix. Not sure how well that job pays. Professional bloggers spend 6-8-10 hours daily:
- creating helpful content through your blog, through guest posts and through videos
- building your friend network by generously promoting other bloggers and by genuinely commenting on their blogs
- freely promoting your premium products and services through each piece of content you create
- generously following the prior 3 steps for months
The person who follows each bullet point for months, then years, sees more and more clients. Traffic increases over time. Blogging profits increase over time. Blogging gives them what they give blogging.
Janice Wald is always after it. She’s a hustler. Follow her for inspiration.
Ditto for Saurabh Tiwari. He is one of the most dedicated bloggers I know. Follow him for inspiration.
Do Not Fight Good Advice
I have personally coached bloggers who fight my smart advice. These people say networking is not for them. These folks resist creating content because they do not want to force it. This crowd ignores good advice, then goes back to watching Netflix or sports for the next 3 hours.
If you fight good blogging advice, you will struggle and fail. It has to be that way; you are doing the opposite of what it takes to succeed. Put your ego to the side. Follow smart advice. Succeed.
Listen to the guy with this home office in Thailand. He knows what he’s talking about.
Your mind wants you to fail because it fears the fears you need to face to become a successful blogger. I feared facing deep fears years ago, so spent most of my time and energy doing everything BUT blogging. You may nod, then, go back to watching Netflix or YouTube for the next 2 hours. 2 weeks down the road, after you spent only 2 hours of your time and energy blogging daily, you feel frustrated and want to quit because you have signed up no new clients, money seems to be running out and no business looks promising, on the horizon.
It is 100% YOUR CHOICE to spend 6 hours watching Netflix today and 2 hours blogging. You are doing this. You are making this choice.
It is 100% YOUR CHOICE to make a massive shift; spend 8 hours creating content and building connections, today.
Blogging just mirrors back to you your choices and energy, you make every waking hour of every day.
Right now, you have the next 8-10 hours to generously help people through creating and networking, or you choose to focus on yourself, watching TV, streaming Netflix, hanging out with friends.
Spend those 8-10 hours daily blogging for 3-6 months, and eventually, you will see more clients.
100% your choice, your decision, your energy, your commitment to blogging success.